Too Big?
Posted by White0Rose on 6/3/2008 11:41:00 PM
My boyfriend and I have tried to have sex twice. Both times we failed because he was just too big and he went limp because he felt like he failed me. I feel so bad but inside, I feel like he failed me too. Now everytime I bring it up he becomes sad and distant. I want to prove to him that it's okay and we can still have sex somehow, but I'm scared that he may be too big and I may not be able to marry him. (My grandmother had to divorce her husband because he was too big for her) I tell him it's okay, theres always next time, but secretly I'm so mad at him.
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i slept with this guy who had the most girthy penis you've ever seen in your life!!! i mean it was huge, im no virgin, but i was shocked and a little scared by it. i felt like a failure because i was too small and he wouldnt fit in me. but he was patient, we played around and used fingers and lube to work me open. it was soooo amazing after that! ive never felt so full and turned on in my life....the lube is still sitting by my bed but he still hasnt called.....oh well!
Posted by I feel your pain on 6/16/2008 6:20:00 PM (Report abuse)
i wish i had your boyfriends problem
Posted by Lucas on 6/16/2008 7:02:00 AM (Report abuse)
I agree with Sandy, but with a twist ..."L-U-B-E"!!! (oh, and maybe a little foreplay and visualization)
Posted by Doogie howser m.d. on 6/10/2008 10:52:00 PM (Report abuse)
Easy way of solving this problem. Blieve me. I had the same problem.
It just takes a bit of time. You start off with something small, your fingers, work your way to his fingers and start getting toys. Basically you need your muscles to relax and get used to the girth of things. It takes time but when it finally happens you'll both be glad you dealt with it.
and dont break up with him just because he cant fit yet lol that makes about as much sense as ditching your girlfriend at the theater to watch tv with your cat instead. wtf, mate. chill. the fact that he feels like hes letting u down means he cares enough about u to feel that shame. make it up to him. work on making urself used to his girth.. itll happen. and u guys will enjoy it.
It just takes a bit of time. You start off with something small, your fingers, work your way to his fingers and start getting toys. Basically you need your muscles to relax and get used to the girth of things. It takes time but when it finally happens you'll both be glad you dealt with it.
and dont break up with him just because he cant fit yet lol that makes about as much sense as ditching your girlfriend at the theater to watch tv with your cat instead. wtf, mate. chill. the fact that he feels like hes letting u down means he cares enough about u to feel that shame. make it up to him. work on making urself used to his girth.. itll happen. and u guys will enjoy it.
Posted by Sandy on 6/7/2008 8:35:00 AM (Report abuse)
That happened to me. There are ways to make it fit. (Use your fingers... or his. my boyfriend enjoyed sticking his fingers in there almost as much as his penis!) And if you really love him and he loves you it will work out in the end.
Posted by Annonymous on 6/4/2008 3:43:00 AM (Report abuse)