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Posted by leeshxxx on 9/18/2008 2:57:00 AM
I love two people.my boyfriend.and my one of my best friends (which yes is a guy.)
now I dont know what to do..

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Hhhmmm.... yeah, don't move in together. That won't help at all. Make a list of what you like about each guy and where you'd want to be a year from now with each person. Do you like one person enough to consider spending the rest of your life with him? Then you're probably really in love with that one.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/19/2008 7:59:00 AM (Report abuse)
I agree with the poster below.

Love should not be something that you can share with two other people. Love is where you can have confidence with your guy not to stare at another person. If you can't decide, then I'd suggest to take a break from all your relationships and just think about it. Don't make unnecessary drama for yourself and people around you. Think carefully. It's awfully easy to confuse care and love.

In time. (:
Posted by Penguin on 9/18/2008 9:49:00 PM (Report abuse)
DO NOT listen to the advice the other person posted, about you all moving in together. That's just weird.

Before doing anything, take some more time to make sure these feelings for your friend are REALLY that kinda love... Because I've been there before, and I finally had to learn to distiguish between caring A WHOLE LOT about someone and actually being "in love" with them.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/18/2008 9:21:00 PM (Report abuse)
Well, you could do what some friends of mine did in your exact situation. They all moved in together for a permanent triage. They all love each other and work together at makeing their unique lifestyle work for them.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/18/2008 7:05:00 PM (Report abuse)
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