U want a baby
Posted by an anonymous user on 7/23/2008 10:15:00 PM
okay i'm sixteen soon to be seventeen in a couple of months, and i want a baby. is that crazy should i wait or should i go after what i want. my boyfriend is eightteen and he's okay he says that it's whatever i want. i need some help on this onee.
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"babyhedred"
that must have been soo horrible to see your man leave you for another woman becuase of your baby. i would have beat him into the ground and gotten child support times 2!
that must have been soo horrible to see your man leave you for another woman becuase of your baby. i would have beat him into the ground and gotten child support times 2!
Posted by Kk7 on 7/24/2008 10:49:00 AM (Report abuse)
babies are more than just something to play with! they are frustrating, hours of hard work, and put soo much stress on your relationship.
have you thought of babysitting a new born? or toddler? im sure you have done it before, but spend a few days with it, with you taking care of it most of the time. maybe you will decide you arent ready, or maybe that you love it.
if you love it, then make sure you are financially ready, tell your parents, and get married to this boy.
however, if he's just letting you have your way with everything, how do you know he's going to be strong enough for you and your baby in the future??
i want to get pregnant SO bad, just to be pregnant. i wish i could give it to a family for them to care for it...but i also dont want my body to become disgusting
have you thought of babysitting a new born? or toddler? im sure you have done it before, but spend a few days with it, with you taking care of it most of the time. maybe you will decide you arent ready, or maybe that you love it.
if you love it, then make sure you are financially ready, tell your parents, and get married to this boy.
however, if he's just letting you have your way with everything, how do you know he's going to be strong enough for you and your baby in the future??
i want to get pregnant SO bad, just to be pregnant. i wish i could give it to a family for them to care for it...but i also dont want my body to become disgusting
Posted by Kk7 on 7/24/2008 10:47:00 AM (Report abuse)
Honey, I understand that you want someone to love yu unconditionally, but I had a baby at 20 and that was to young. I couldn't do ANYTHING anymore. While my friends were going out to shows or the beach or anywhere, I had to stay home with the baby cuz I couldn't find a sitter. Then at night, UHHH!!!! All he did was cry, cry cry and I wanted to pull my hair out! MY boyfriend, too, said it was cool to have a baby, but as soon as the baby became inconvenient to him, he was gone all the time until one day he said he found another girlfriend. So there I was, stuck with a baby, no friends, and struggling to get by. I am 45 now, and I strongly urge teens to rally think about what having a baby entails. Sure, you will love that baby to death, but your life as you know will be over. So think hard,ok?
Posted by Babyhedred on 7/24/2008 8:05:00 AM (Report abuse)
Personally, I would wait.
When your like 30 you could regret it.
Travel the world a little, do fun stuff. Live a little
If you have a kid, you won;t be able to do any of that stuff,
you'll just have a kid nagging at you all the time
When your like 30 you could regret it.
Travel the world a little, do fun stuff. Live a little
If you have a kid, you won;t be able to do any of that stuff,
you'll just have a kid nagging at you all the time
Posted by .A. on 7/24/2008 2:28:00 AM (Report abuse)
I admit that I'm siding with society. Finish school if you haven't already, go to college, have a formal education. It's hard to find a job without a formal education let alone GED, and having a kid is hard to live with, especially if you're a teen parent. If you really want a kid, please talk about your decision with your parents, legal guardians, or whoever you live with as it IS a life-changing thing. Your kid will ALWAYS be first, and you will always be second.
Please keep this in mind, but I hope you find happiness. (:
Please keep this in mind, but I hope you find happiness. (:
Posted by Penguin on 7/24/2008 2:19:00 AM (Report abuse)
If you can support the baby financially then go ahead and have one. If you can't, definitely wait.
Posted by Bliss on 7/24/2008 12:12:00 AM (Report abuse)