http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/u-want-a-baby/14301881/The right place to post your secrets. Kk7 "babyhedred" that must have been soo horrible to see your man leave you for another woman becuase of your baby. i would have beat him into the ground and gotten child support times 2! http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/u-want-a-baby/14301881/#c14304772 24 Jul 2008 10:49:00 +0000 Kk7 babies are more than just something to play with! they are frustrating, hours of hard work, and put soo much stress on your relationship. have you thought of babysitting a new born? or toddler? im... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/u-want-a-baby/14301881/#c14304770 24 Jul 2008 10:47:00 +0000 Babyhedred Honey, I understand that you want someone to love yu unconditionally, but I had a baby at 20 and that was to young. I couldn't do ANYTHING anymore. While my friends were going out to shows or the... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/u-want-a-baby/14301881/#c14304756 24 Jul 2008 08:05:00 +0000 .A. Personally, I would wait. When your like 30 you could regret it. Travel the world a little, do fun stuff. Live a little If you have a kid, you won;t be able to do any of that stuff, you'll just have... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/u-want-a-baby/14301881/#c14304737 24 Jul 2008 02:28:00 +0000 Penguin I admit that I'm siding with society. Finish school if you haven't already, go to college, have a formal education. It's hard to find a job without a formal education let alone GED, and having a kid... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/u-want-a-baby/14301881/#c14304734 24 Jul 2008 02:19:00 +0000 Bliss If you can support the baby financially then go ahead and have one. If you can't, definitely wait. http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/u-want-a-baby/14301881/#c14304730 24 Jul 2008 00:12:00 +0000