Ughhh

Posted by POPuLAR on 5/25/2008 9:38:00 PM

so. i guess its hard for me. because... i have a lot of girlfriends... so this year i decided maybe i should make some guy friends. well its a lot harder for me than i thought. i have this weird subconcious thing so instead of acting friendly... i act too friendly and guys mistake it as flirtation. but when they ask me out. i always act weird, defensive and surprised and kind of ignore them. i know its really really really bad. so right now. i only have one guys friend. and im pretty sure hes gay... oh and ALSO. when i DO try to flirt with guys. they dont seem to notice. ironic how life works.

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It's funny that you say that, because I'm right with you until you say that they ask you out. When I try to be friends with guys, they think I'm fliurtiing with them even when I'm not, and then they try and repel me because, well, let's just say I'm not the "pretty" friend, if you know what I mean. Anyway, back to your problem, try treating guys you're interested in like friends. Even if they don't immediately get the message that you're flirting with them, a friendship is a great foundation of a relationship. Good luck.

Posted by Sarah on 5/26/2008 8:28:00 PM (Report abuse)

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