Uncle
Posted by an anonymous user on 8/1/2008 7:38:00 PM
My uncle and I were really drunk . He came over and touched me , I let him because I felt bad for him ,I touched him , though it made me feel gross. A month Past , he kept trying to come over and talk real gross , I ignored him, I felt "loved" because of what happend (pathetic huh) I feel disgusted by this too. I had a hard life and need Love and attention from men. anyway , one night he came by again , I didnt answer the door . He hung himself. I dont know what he was thinking about when he did it. maybe he realized how Crazy that was. he left his wife , and kids behind.
I hate myself for what happend that night.
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I hate myself for what happend that night.
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i'll bet he felt bad, but i know that he had problems other than you, so you cannot blame yourself!
Posted by Kk7 on 8/4/2008 11:01:00 AM (Report abuse)
It couldnt have olnly been you, maybe he was having problems at home or with money, you shouldnt feel bad for wanting to be loved, I suggest you get some help from a docter.
good luck
good luck
Posted by Me on 8/2/2008 6:35:00 AM (Report abuse)
I agree that maybe it might help you get over the incident of him touching you and you touching him back by seeing a psychiatrist, and telling your family what happened if they dont already know.
As for him committing suicide, it is definitely not your fault.
People, are responsible for themselves, he made a conscious decision to hang himself that night, you were just doing what you thought was the right thing by not answering the door, Lcpa543 is dead on when they say that if he killed himself, then there was definitely something else going on, it wasn't your actions that drove him to that point.
Please dont hate yourself for what happened, it was his decision.
As for him committing suicide, it is definitely not your fault.
People, are responsible for themselves, he made a conscious decision to hang himself that night, you were just doing what you thought was the right thing by not answering the door, Lcpa543 is dead on when they say that if he killed himself, then there was definitely something else going on, it wasn't your actions that drove him to that point.
Please dont hate yourself for what happened, it was his decision.
Posted by Ghost on 8/1/2008 11:13:00 PM (Report abuse)
it's not your fault for what happened
it was the right thing to do to not answer the door if you didn't feel comfortable having him make sexual passes at you
don't blame yourself
if he committed suicide, then obviously he was having problems
and as for you letting him touch you and you touching him, you felt obligated to do it because you felt bad for him
but you might want to consider seeing someone, like a therapist, to talk about how you feel about it
it was the right thing to do to not answer the door if you didn't feel comfortable having him make sexual passes at you
don't blame yourself
if he committed suicide, then obviously he was having problems
and as for you letting him touch you and you touching him, you felt obligated to do it because you felt bad for him
but you might want to consider seeing someone, like a therapist, to talk about how you feel about it
Posted by Lcpa543 on 8/1/2008 8:47:00 PM (Report abuse)