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Posted by Kanine89 on 9/20/2008 5:34:00 PM
Ok I'm really unconfident with everything, all my friends tell me I'm ugly (even if they are joking if people tell you things after a certain amount of time you'll believe it) ive had this problem since I can remember..I had my hair long and had a bit of confidence come back I could talk to women and had a girlfriend, I decided to chop it of and my love life went dead, and now I have now confidence, so I thought of growing my hair again but people tell me not to, I dont know what to do, in order to get my confidence up.I really want to be able to approach a women and ask her for her number.but at the moment I cant even ask this girl I talk to at work for it and I'm good friends with her.HELP???

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I agree with chan2k7
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/20/2008 9:55:00 PM (Report abuse)
some women don't care about looks or care about personality more than looks.Don't change yourself for someone else becasue inside you will always be you .Find some1 who likes you for who you are becasue if you don't you'll never find the right girl for you.I think , in my opinion , that all you need is a confidence boost because women love confidence in a man . think about it , say theres a room full of people talking ,and one man starts to do some amazing dance moves . who do you think a girl is going 2 go for , a shy man who isn't talking much or the confident man dancing.

In a realationship one of the most inportant things is to feel comfortable with who you are with so don't try to hide the real you because ,if you think about it , it will eventually show anyways.

Don't do what other people say you should do , just becasue they give you advice doesnt mean you have to do what they say , but only listen... and work out for yourself what you are going to do . in other words, if you want to grow your hair then bludy helll grow it!! lol

hope this helps chan2k7 x
Posted by chan2k7 on 9/20/2008 5:52:00 PM (Report abuse)
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