Unhappy & miserable
Posted by sue on 11/11/2007 8:46:00 PM
I'm married for 6 yrs known him 8 yrs. I think he is a male shovanistic pig some times,he doe's terrible as a responseable father & husband, he is to me a very self centered guy, he works awile then he quites & exspects me to work & pay all the bills on my own, while he blows his on what ever, I am not able to do alot of standing for a long period at a time I make only minamum wage pay & he makes very well & monitoers what I spend Of his, so no catering to myself amogst other things that a woman doe's as a women I feel very cheated & depresseed, I have no where to go I have two chilren here at home. he grappes at me about the house all the time & i refuses to help around the house. I have thyroid goiters 3 to be exact , I have no insurance no help,& he don't want to here about my health problems, some times i hate him,& wished I would have never meet him I don't care if my house is cleanat all some times, I feel that he just wants me for sex & a maid & take care of his kids & mine, some times i want to die but I don't want my kids to be mistreated by his family because of jealouse & other people, I know me & my kids deserve much more & better but what are we to do? I do love him some I GUESS, I don't even know if i love myself any more because of low self esteem. What am I to do.I don't want to lose my kids I love them so much & would die for them in a heart beat. WHAT DO I DO?
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Wow, I think you might be my mom.
Posted by ??????? on 11/26/2007 10:39:00 PM (Report abuse)
hmmm plz try to mention the country u are in or atleast which religion u belong to...it gets easy to advice then....well to me your problem seems asian related....coz western women wouldn't be that miserable in marriage,,,they are kinda bold.
if you are asian then do ask your family to support u and get u out of that hell hole...but if your family is not supportive or financial strong then my friend u r in trouble :( if i were u i'd chuck him out of the house but u seem to actually love the guy???? what more can i say then...just bear with the shit he gives you.
sorry but i do get hyper with our asian women martial problems...they complain and complain and yet dun wanna leave the guy.
amazes me.
if you are asian then do ask your family to support u and get u out of that hell hole...but if your family is not supportive or financial strong then my friend u r in trouble :( if i were u i'd chuck him out of the house but u seem to actually love the guy???? what more can i say then...just bear with the shit he gives you.
sorry but i do get hyper with our asian women martial problems...they complain and complain and yet dun wanna leave the guy.
amazes me.
Posted by Gul on 11/14/2007 11:42:00 AM (Report abuse)
try to make some good change for yourself since the guy bringyou so many sufferings.& for the kids,you have to make up your mind.BE BRAVE!Noneed to care someone who hurt you so deeply.Leave him and it would be a desirable decision.I have met many unfortunate families in my country,from which those wives were usually the victims.But they just had no courage to escape from it coz they had kids already.It's too STUPID!
I hope you can be the unique one who is brave enough to look for your true love.GOOG LUCK!
I hope you can be the unique one who is brave enough to look for your true love.GOOG LUCK!
Posted by Leslie on 11/13/2007 8:38:00 PM (Report abuse)
Kick him to the curb girl! If you have someplace to go - I'd pack up & leave. Leave him alone for awhile - he'll think about it & probably make changes. He doesn't sound like a prize so I don't think any other would keep him around for long. He's got it good with you. I could not bring myself to do what your doing with a man who can't keep a job. Life is busy there's no time for nonsense. He needs to clean himself up & fast!
Posted by Tasha on 11/12/2007 2:32:00 PM (Report abuse)