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Posted by an anonymous user on 9/21/2008 9:05:00 PM
I'm a virgin and I want to have sex with my boyfriend.but I'm really nervous its just going to be uncomfortable and awkward. can anyone help? any tips you and supply?
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If it is uncomfortable and awkward the timing is not right. I would say wait until you feel totally at ease and no embarrassment at all about the thought of any of it. This should be a beautiful, loving experience, not one fraught with anxiety.
If you decide to do it, please, please use condoms, and spermicide. Condoms are only 80% effective on their own.
If you decide to do it, please, please use condoms, and spermicide. Condoms are only 80% effective on their own.
Posted by nopicsplease on 9/22/2008 9:32:00 AM (Report abuse)
Ask him to go in slowly so that he can pull out quickly if he starts to hurt you. There are many things that can go a little wrong the first time, he might be too nervous and not be able to keep it up, or you might be nervous and be too tight. It's best just to cuddle each other and tell each other how in love you are and wait until you're relaxed enough to try again.
Don't have really high expectations, the first time isn't great, especially for girls. My first time only lasted 30 seconds and just happened in my boyfriends room. It wasnt the romantic candle-lit escapade I was expecting, but I did it with someone I love, and that's more important. Just remember that, if not everything goes as planned
Don't forget condoms! :)
Don't have really high expectations, the first time isn't great, especially for girls. My first time only lasted 30 seconds and just happened in my boyfriends room. It wasnt the romantic candle-lit escapade I was expecting, but I did it with someone I love, and that's more important. Just remember that, if not everything goes as planned
Don't forget condoms! :)
Posted by Lemonade on 9/22/2008 2:11:00 AM (Report abuse)