Well im scared to let my friends know that im bi...
Posted by GIRL2008 on 6/12/2008 9:09:00 PM
okay lets see.... im 17 yrs old and i live in alabama, where clearly gay,lez,or bi ppl r taken for misfits.
well all my friends r straight and whenever we hang out i so desperatly want to tell them that im bi. but im scared too cuz of what they might think. they make jokes and stuff about "misfits" as they would call them, but deep inside it hurts me. im scared that they wont treat me the same anymore. and one of my friends really HATES bi people and i dont know why. she spreads rumours bout BIs n shit. i cant trust any of my friends, im so scared of them actually, cuz they might band me from the group. one of my friends says i can tell her anything but im like inside my mind, oh no i cant. and she says she wudnt treat me any different but im sure she will. what should i do???
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well all my friends r straight and whenever we hang out i so desperatly want to tell them that im bi. but im scared too cuz of what they might think. they make jokes and stuff about "misfits" as they would call them, but deep inside it hurts me. im scared that they wont treat me the same anymore. and one of my friends really HATES bi people and i dont know why. she spreads rumours bout BIs n shit. i cant trust any of my friends, im so scared of them actually, cuz they might band me from the group. one of my friends says i can tell her anything but im like inside my mind, oh no i cant. and she says she wudnt treat me any different but im sure she will. what should i do???
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same as Brb if they're really your friends, they would accept it and move on with their lives. If they can't accept it, then meet people who will.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/19/2008 11:07:00 PM (Report abuse)
If they are friends worth keeping they'll accept you for who you are. Go for it girl!
Posted by Brb on 6/17/2008 9:16:00 AM (Report abuse)
that's a good idea. I am suffering something like that.I just hate the label bi. They label you and treat you like crap. :( Why can't we just love? I wanted to tell my best friend, but I can't. Somehow I know she won't be the same. Specially since I kind of feel something for her. I just tell you, never stop loving.
Posted by Ana on 6/14/2008 2:59:00 PM (Report abuse)
I know how you feel. I'm in the same situation. I live in CO and it's more accepted here, but I'm still unsure about telling my friends. I think that when and if you move away to go to college or whatever might be the best time. That way they would have time to sit on it. I always ask if my friends if they would still be my friends if I was gay and unfortunately, not everyone is going to accept it. You just learn who your true friends are... If you do tell them, let me know. =]
Posted by Taye1402 on 6/13/2008 6:51:00 PM (Report abuse)