WHAT DOES THIS MEAN????? Help!!!!!
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/14/2008 7:25:00 AM
I am married, but I have been having an affair.My husband is aware, but he thinks its over, but I haven't ended it because I intend to get a divorce.
I have had this boyfriend for 5 years.
Everything seemed GREAT last week.He (bf) has been pushing me to get a divorce, and I just asked him if he would stay with me for another year before I do, as my youngest child cannot start school until then, and I cannot afford additional day-care hours.He said "Well, I haven't left yet".
Now he wont return my calls, and he will not answer his phone when he sees me on the caller ID.
He isn't married, and I know he is OK because I know that he has been reporting to work.
I am pretty sure he is ending it...but do you think he still loves me? If he had another girlfriend, would he have continued to push me to divorce? If I file now, do you think it would change his mind? Thank You.
By the way, I know that adultery is wrong, and a sin.I am not proud of it, but I love him, and I NEVER loved my husband (marriage was based on the pregnancy of my first child, which was the result of loneliness), even though he is a good man...I do not wish to get bashed---it just wont help things.Thank you.
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I have had this boyfriend for 5 years.
Everything seemed GREAT last week.He (bf) has been pushing me to get a divorce, and I just asked him if he would stay with me for another year before I do, as my youngest child cannot start school until then, and I cannot afford additional day-care hours.He said "Well, I haven't left yet".
Now he wont return my calls, and he will not answer his phone when he sees me on the caller ID.
He isn't married, and I know he is OK because I know that he has been reporting to work.
I am pretty sure he is ending it...but do you think he still loves me? If he had another girlfriend, would he have continued to push me to divorce? If I file now, do you think it would change his mind? Thank You.
By the way, I know that adultery is wrong, and a sin.I am not proud of it, but I love him, and I NEVER loved my husband (marriage was based on the pregnancy of my first child, which was the result of loneliness), even though he is a good man...I do not wish to get bashed---it just wont help things.Thank you.
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Maybe he (bf) just needs some space? Sounds like he just needs to take a time out from the whole caotic situation. Put yourself in his shoes. What if it was the other way around? You asking him to leave his wife?
Posted by MissMe on 11/14/2008 7:51:00 AM (Report abuse)