What should i do(unique relation prob)?
Posted by comxpert8 on 7/1/2008 12:33:00 AM
There is this girl she is 15 and i am 17. I feel weird about this but i really like her and i know she likes me. She lays on the flirt like there is no tomorrow and i find it harder and harder to resist i fear i might do something i regret. There is one more big part to this secret but i am insanley scared to post it here... here goes i hope to hell none sees this.
She is my step cousin i have known her for 7 years. she spends most summers with me and my family we go on vacations with all our family and i have 5 female step cousins that are all my age and most of them like me or atleast flirt with me. I think part of this problem is my fault i have a tendency to manipulate people not on purpose or anything... for example i will put my arm around one of the other girls or something just playing with them and then the other girls get jelous and flirt with me even more and i like that.
Anyway this girl i like her the others i like but not in this way i have never met another girl like her and my dad doesn't really care but my step mom is so freaking hypocritical and is very paranoid about us we have spent mabey 48 hours alone together in the last 7 years. she is hypocritical because in her family one of her actual cousins married another one of their cousins.
Basically this is my question should i justl eave it alone and flirt with her and let her flirt with me... or what can i do?
oh ya and we haven't talked about it or anything it's like a freaking non talked about subject with us we don't stop flirting but we don't talk about it. so i don't know for sure she likes me but these are things she will do... when i put my hand out like for a high five she will hold it untill someone looks like my step mom or brother or something. A week ago i told her when i am watching a movie with a girl i love it when they lay thier legs over me so she does that... sometimes i find her just looking at me with this look like i like you... when we are sitting near each other like on a plane or something if i move over in my seat away from her she will mover herself to get close to me ( i don't even think she notices)... when she is near me she matches my breathing without knowing it (i heard that means something)... i could go on but you get the idea... and it just feels good to get this off my chest...
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She is my step cousin i have known her for 7 years. she spends most summers with me and my family we go on vacations with all our family and i have 5 female step cousins that are all my age and most of them like me or atleast flirt with me. I think part of this problem is my fault i have a tendency to manipulate people not on purpose or anything... for example i will put my arm around one of the other girls or something just playing with them and then the other girls get jelous and flirt with me even more and i like that.
Anyway this girl i like her the others i like but not in this way i have never met another girl like her and my dad doesn't really care but my step mom is so freaking hypocritical and is very paranoid about us we have spent mabey 48 hours alone together in the last 7 years. she is hypocritical because in her family one of her actual cousins married another one of their cousins.
Basically this is my question should i justl eave it alone and flirt with her and let her flirt with me... or what can i do?
oh ya and we haven't talked about it or anything it's like a freaking non talked about subject with us we don't stop flirting but we don't talk about it. so i don't know for sure she likes me but these are things she will do... when i put my hand out like for a high five she will hold it untill someone looks like my step mom or brother or something. A week ago i told her when i am watching a movie with a girl i love it when they lay thier legs over me so she does that... sometimes i find her just looking at me with this look like i like you... when we are sitting near each other like on a plane or something if i move over in my seat away from her she will mover herself to get close to me ( i don't even think she notices)... when she is near me she matches my breathing without knowing it (i heard that means something)... i could go on but you get the idea... and it just feels good to get this off my chest...
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maybe she's just a big flirt??? she kind of seems like it.... and does she LIKE you or LOVE you, theres a big difference
go for a girl who loves you and makes you feel good even without flirting
go for a girl who loves you and makes you feel good even without flirting
Posted by ThatFriend on 9/28/2008 10:07:00 PM (Report abuse)
talk it out!! and if she's interested, go for it, don't feel guilty, if you could see yourself loving her, thank god you'll have her under your arm and not some creep.
Posted by Been there on 7/1/2008 9:46:00 PM (Report abuse)
ok...its your STEP cousin...not your real cousin...if you really have feelings for her you should go for it...and the age difference isn't even that big...trust me...plus, my friends parents were step cousins and they got married and raised a family....you shouldn't let your step mom stand in the way...life is way too short to miss out on opportunities like this...
Posted by Omg on 7/1/2008 12:22:00 PM (Report abuse)
wow,..why dont you just talk to her about it?
if you really like her like that, communication is key hunni!!!
if you really like her like that, communication is key hunni!!!
Posted by Kk7 on 7/1/2008 11:28:00 AM (Report abuse)