When to lose your Virginity?
Posted by breaksxmyxheart on 8/6/2008 2:40:00 AM
I know this sounds weird but i have never officially had a boyfriend, like i guess you can say i went out with this guy for two weeks but i ended up breaking up with him because i saw him as a friend. I have kissed 12 guys and i am 17. I am still a virgin. I am so afraid im never going to find that guy that is perfectly right for me to lose it to, but i know if i wanted to lose it i could, ive had the option many times when hangin out with guys but i wasnt ready. I know i am a pretty girl and guys want me but sometimes i feel like once i do it, it will have been a big mistake and that i will have regreted my first time. I feel if i finally give myself to a guy he will just fuck me over like all the rest that i have just hung out with and did stuff with. But then again i dont wanna be a virgin until im 20. So wat do i do?
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with being 20 and a virgin. Would you want to date a guy who had been with a bunch of girls?
Posted by collegesecrets on 11/9/2008 11:10:00 AM (Report abuse)
i was in your situation. I wanted to wait but then one night i just went for it. I dont regret it or anything but it really didnt change anything. I suggest to wait it will make it more special.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/29/2008 6:56:00 AM (Report abuse)
im 18 and still a virgin i feel the same way. but honestly i think you just know when the right guy comes along..... also listen to your friends...
if it wasnt for talking to my friends about this i probably would have lost my virginity to my loser xbfs!
>.<
so yeah just be careful and use a condom babe
<33much love.
if it wasnt for talking to my friends about this i probably would have lost my virginity to my loser xbfs!
>.<
so yeah just be careful and use a condom babe
<33much love.
Posted by laceyL on 8/21/2008 4:40:00 AM (Report abuse)
I would suggest waiting until you know. I have a friend who is 21 and a half and JUST lost hers. When it's the right time, you'll know. Believe me, Being a virgin isn't horrible. I have ALOT of respect for people who can even make it to age 18 as a virgin. It shows alot of self control and alot of Self Respect. Just keeping in mind YOU ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR FIRST!
Posted by Skratch on 8/7/2008 2:07:00 AM (Report abuse)
thankyou all for all the wonderful advice and i kow that i am not quite ready for sex and when i am i will know.=]
Posted by Breaksxmyxheart on 8/7/2008 12:51:00 AM (Report abuse)
Your not ready. If you have too many concerns and questions; its not the right time. You will know when the time is right. It should feel like something you want to do - not have to do. You are better off already then the 14,15,and 16 year old that have done it and regret it. Be smart and picky. Think long and hard who is worthy of your virginity because once its gone ....its gone there is no taking it back.
Posted by Not right now on 8/6/2008 10:32:00 PM (Report abuse)
Bliss is right, losing your virginity is your choice. Some people want to lose it before a certain age, others want to wait for marriage.
I'd rather wait, because most relationships based off of sex isn't going to get very far, and if a guy pushes me into sex, then he's not worth it because he just wants sex, and not a relationship. If he'll wait for you, he's awesome and worth it, in my opinion. (:
I'd rather wait, because most relationships based off of sex isn't going to get very far, and if a guy pushes me into sex, then he's not worth it because he just wants sex, and not a relationship. If he'll wait for you, he's awesome and worth it, in my opinion. (:
Posted by Penguin on 8/6/2008 1:18:00 PM (Report abuse)
I lost my virginity when I was 18 to a girl that I thought I was going to marry. We didnt marry and I went on to sleep with four other girls befor I was married. To this day I still think about her and wish I was married to her instead of my surrent wife. But I definetly wish I would never have had sex in the first place. That is the one thing that has really driven a wedge between my and my wife. It's best to wait, because if you marry someone who is a virgin and you are not, it may create a problem. It will also strengthen a marrage if you both have never had sex and once you are married learn with one another and trust one another and experiment with one another. That is the greatest love, and I dont have it. Your only 17 PLEASE for your own sanity wait!! Not to mention the boys your age are all idiots and your liable to end up with an STD or pregnant.
Posted by Bestdad on 8/6/2008 11:21:00 AM (Report abuse)
You should lose your virginity when you are completely ready and when you are in love. It's supposed to be meaningful to you and the other person. You shouldn't lose your virginity just because you don't want to stay a virgin until a certain age, or to be relieved knowing you lost it. Well, that's what I always believed.
Posted by Bliss on 8/6/2008 9:05:00 AM (Report abuse)