http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/when-to-lose-your-virginity/14302057/The right place to post your secrets. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being 20 and a virgin. Would you want to date a guy who had been with a bunch of girls? http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/when-to-lose-your-virginity/14302057/#c14309534 09 Nov 2008 11:10:00 +0000 i was in your situation. I wanted to wait but then one night i just went for it. I dont regret it or anything but it really didnt change anything. I suggest to wait it will make it more special. http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/when-to-lose-your-virginity/14302057/#c14307473 29 Sep 2008 06:56:00 +0000 im 18 and still a virgin i feel the same way. but honestly i think you just know when the right guy comes along..... also listen to your friends... if it wasnt for talking to my friends about this i... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/when-to-lose-your-virginity/14302057/#c14306039 21 Aug 2008 04:40:00 +0000 Skratch I would suggest waiting until you know. I have a friend who is 21 and a half and JUST lost hers. When it's the right time, you'll know. Believe me, Being a virgin isn't horrible. I have ALOT of... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/when-to-lose-your-virginity/14302057/#c14305517 07 Aug 2008 02:07:00 +0000 Breaksxmyxheart thankyou all for all the wonderful advice and i kow that i am not quite ready for sex and when i am i will know.=] http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/when-to-lose-your-virginity/14302057/#c14305514 07 Aug 2008 00:51:00 +0000 Not right now Your not ready. If you have too many concerns and questions; its not the right time. You will know when the time is right. It should feel like something you want to do - not have to do. You are... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/when-to-lose-your-virginity/14302057/#c14305513 06 Aug 2008 22:32:00 +0000 Penguin Bliss is right, losing your virginity is your choice. Some people want to lose it before a certain age, others want to wait for marriage. I'd rather wait, because most relationships based off of sex... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/when-to-lose-your-virginity/14302057/#c14305504 06 Aug 2008 13:18:00 +0000 Bestdad I lost my virginity when I was 18 to a girl that I thought I was going to marry. We didnt marry and I went on to sleep with four other girls befor I was married. To this day I still think about her... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/when-to-lose-your-virginity/14302057/#c14305498 06 Aug 2008 11:21:00 +0000 Bliss You should lose your virginity when you are completely ready and when you are in love. It's supposed to be meaningful to you and the other person. You shouldn't lose your virginity just because you... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/when-to-lose-your-virginity/14302057/#c14305493 06 Aug 2008 09:05:00 +0000