Why can't guys make up their mind?
Posted by kimberlian on 3/6/2008 10:18:00 AM
I've dating this guy on and off for the last 4 years, and i feel the only time he comes back in my life is when he's single..i find right now i'm the back up girl. He tells me countless time he's in love with me to tell me the next day he likes me.. i'm not sure what to think at this time - maybe that i'm retarded that i would give this guy the benefit of the doubt 4 times and i'm just being taken for a fool.
What should i do? Every time we start dating - everything is great. It's just after we have sex, within a months he's out of my life without a word and after dating a girl for a few months - he comes back to me giving me some bs.
I've meet with he's family and friends and they seem like really great people - it's just the exception he's an ass, who can't make up is mind in what he wants out life. Should i just keep him out of my life?
He gave me some crap story that this time it would be different for he read the book "secret"
and it made a different in he's life. He has asked me to go away with him to a few places but i find out later he's going with someone else - some guy - whatever!!!
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What should i do? Every time we start dating - everything is great. It's just after we have sex, within a months he's out of my life without a word and after dating a girl for a few months - he comes back to me giving me some bs.
I've meet with he's family and friends and they seem like really great people - it's just the exception he's an ass, who can't make up is mind in what he wants out life. Should i just keep him out of my life?
He gave me some crap story that this time it would be different for he read the book "secret"
and it made a different in he's life. He has asked me to go away with him to a few places but i find out later he's going with someone else - some guy - whatever!!!
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Dont waste your time with him. Next time he comes to your door after being with someone else, tell him you are over him and have moved on. You deserve so much more. Dont lose 4 more years being with a guy who cant make up his mind.
Posted by Sam on 3/15/2008 6:10:00 PM (Report abuse)
i dont know wat exactly the situation is but reading the way u have explained it i think u are the only person who can decide dat......because reading it i feel u shud leave him but i dont know how intense is ur relationship with him.had i been at ur place i wud have forgiven him.
Posted by Friend on 3/12/2008 6:53:00 PM (Report abuse)
Guys always act like this. Hopefully, he'll get over it eventually!
Posted by A friend on 3/11/2008 9:57:00 PM (Report abuse)
Ever noitce how when you expect someone to be better ~ they aren't - including you?
Ever notice that when someone DEMANDS that you be better - because they know you can be - that you cannot remain "lesser than" they have told you to be.
"Asking for" will get you nothing ~ "no" becomes a choice.
"Telling what you want" may not get it, either - but at least you know who's saying "no."
If you don't think you're "worthy of" no one else will either.
"Tell him" what the hxxx you want! Then demand it - no one wants to live with a whimp - even if they say they do...
"5 cents, Please!"
Ever notice that when someone DEMANDS that you be better - because they know you can be - that you cannot remain "lesser than" they have told you to be.
"Asking for" will get you nothing ~ "no" becomes a choice.
"Telling what you want" may not get it, either - but at least you know who's saying "no."
If you don't think you're "worthy of" no one else will either.
"Tell him" what the hxxx you want! Then demand it - no one wants to live with a whimp - even if they say they do...
"5 cents, Please!"
Posted by A friend on 3/9/2008 5:33:00 PM (Report abuse)