Why does she have to be straight? =[
Posted by trapped on 7/25/2008 12:05:00 AM
Ok, I'm bi and I am totally in love with my bff...She doesn't know I'm bi, so it's kind of a problem. I love the way she laughs, and walks. She is so beautiful, but she doesn't think she is..I just wanna hold her and kiss her and assure her that she is wonderful. She is one of those friends that is always hugging me and telling me she loves me..I love being close to her, but I also hate that I can't be closer...She comes to me with guy problems, these loser guys treat her like crap and I have to sit there and watch it. She thinks its her fault..I tell her how great she is and how stupid they are. I don't think she is bi, but I think if I could just kiss her or hold her and treat her the way she deserves to be treated..than maybe she would give me a chance...but maybe I am just trying to convince myself of that. I could really use your advice. I don't know how many more times I can take her getting so close and not acting...I have to restrain myself when we are alone. I don't know why I can't accept the fact that she is straight, I just love her too much...
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wow. yeah. i was in this exact situation in about 7th grade with my friend.
i never made a move and now we've drifted apart.
since then, we have kind of became friends again but now she has a boyfriend.
so now if i ever try to make a move, she will be really freaked out.
take the risk and just tell her how you feel.
dont lose her.
i never made a move and now we've drifted apart.
since then, we have kind of became friends again but now she has a boyfriend.
so now if i ever try to make a move, she will be really freaked out.
take the risk and just tell her how you feel.
dont lose her.
Posted by ranastas on 11/20/2008 9:36:00 PM (Report abuse)
okay
so my best friend liked me
i considered myself straight
...i'm not sure what happened, but we ended up together (it lasted a long time)
she's the love of my life
although we've broken up
things were too complicated...
so my best friend liked me
i considered myself straight
...i'm not sure what happened, but we ended up together (it lasted a long time)
she's the love of my life
although we've broken up
things were too complicated...
Posted by Been there. sorta on 7/30/2008 5:35:00 PM (Report abuse)
The thing is that honesty is REALLY important in a friendship and so you need to be honest with her. She'll be really crushed if she is to find this out from someone else. Treat her as an equal and level with her. You do run the risk of losing her forever though, she might be afraid of this new revelation, just know that in the end, whatever is meant to be will find its way :)
All the best :)
All the best :)
Posted by HippieB on 7/26/2008 4:37:00 AM (Report abuse)
Maybe you should tell her how you feel before you show her through actions. That's just a suggestion. Actions do speak louder than words, though.. This is a complicated situation. You can either tell her how you feel, show her how you feel through your actions, or keep it to yourself. Is she the type of person that would be comfortable about the way you feel about her? If not, you might not want to try anything or it might ruin your friendship.
Posted by Bliss on 7/25/2008 10:08:00 AM (Report abuse)