Why? What should I do?
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/26/2008 10:59:00 PM
I have a friend that is making a huge mistake. She has been off an on with this guy for over a year now. Her relationship is the same as another close friend of mine. Both have gone this way so far. Breaks up with her the first time just after they have sex for the first time. Says hes sorry gets back together with her. Cheats on her and they break up a second time. 3 weeks later says hes sorry and gets back together with her. Third time he says he dosent love her even though he says it she spirals into depression. The first girl actually tried to kill herself but my friends and I found her and got her to a hospital. My other friend I saw this coming warned her and thankfully got the thoughts out of her head. The other girl eventually did get back together with him and ended up finding out he was using her and was dating two girls at once. She broke up with him and he came after her to try and kill her. I notice now my other friend is hanging out with him again and I'm so worried the same thing will happen. I know both of these guys and they act the same way. She keeps saying to me you dont know him like I do you dont understand.I dont know what to do I dont want to have this happen to another friend. What can I do?
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Newsflash, If a man breaks up with you after you had sex he might have been your boyfriend but you were just his one night stand/fuck buddy , if he comes back for more and you let him that makes you his booty call , ladies quit deceiving yourselves
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/2/2008 7:52:00 PM (Report abuse)
WOW. That's some life. I'm sorry that you have to go through all of this. You need to talk to your friend. Worst that can happen - she hates you and doesn't talk to you. But in the end, you might have saved her life. What her 'boy' is doing to her sounds like physiological abuse. I don't know anything about it, but I do know that she needs to get help before the violence actually hurts someone.
I really respect you and admire you for caring so much about your friends. I strongly encourage you and/or her to sit down and talk to a counselor.
And her mistakes WILL NEVER be your fault. Don't put this on yourself.
I know you can do it. SMILE! =] good luck
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I really respect you and admire you for caring so much about your friends. I strongly encourage you and/or her to sit down and talk to a counselor.
And her mistakes WILL NEVER be your fault. Don't put this on yourself.
I know you can do it. SMILE! =] good luck
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Posted by smile18 on 10/28/2008 1:34:00 PM (Report abuse)
I know it sucks, but the thing is, she is going to just get pissy if you try to interfere. So just be there for her and support her, and make sure she konws she can call no matter what,.
it is going to be bad if she gets hurt and thinks she cant call anyone for help.
your a good person for trying to help her.
xxox
it is going to be bad if she gets hurt and thinks she cant call anyone for help.
your a good person for trying to help her.
xxox
Posted by wallflower on 10/27/2008 1:58:00 PM (Report abuse)
lat her go though it and if it falls apairt then just be there for her at the end
Posted by babygirl on 10/27/2008 10:38:00 AM (Report abuse)
i had a similar friend situation.
the fact of the matter is that you can't help someone who doesn't think there's a problem and doesn't want to be helped. you can sit your friend down one on one and really talk to her and make her listen, but after that... there is nothing you can do.
the fact of the matter is that you can't help someone who doesn't think there's a problem and doesn't want to be helped. you can sit your friend down one on one and really talk to her and make her listen, but after that... there is nothing you can do.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/26/2008 11:51:00 PM (Report abuse)