WIN him BACK
Posted by sass on 10/23/2007 2:23:00 PM
i have been with my boyfriend for some time and its long distance. we met and always were in love. but once, when i told him not to be a hermit, he went ahead and hooked up with a woman he was attracted to before but never got together. during that time, i have asked if he cheats on me and he denied, but with time, he loses interest in talking to me. but whenever i stop talking to him, he'd miss me.
im deeply in love with this guy. i dont want to lose him while i still have a hold over him. what should i do, know this woman who's older and more dynamic than me seems to have a hold over him and he now got the courage like he never did before to approach her. i really want him back. I know the easiest due course is for someone to deter me. but i want constructive help to win him back. we were so happy together. the thing is, he's unlikely to commit to this woman who is much older than us.
he also knows that his mom likes me and not her. thro the years that i know him, i came to realise he's rich, which makes me think he has trouble to commit, and with this other woman as well. but we were in love, we never want to break up and i would like to make him mine.
im asking not what to do with the relationship but what i can do to turn things around and have him come back to me.
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im deeply in love with this guy. i dont want to lose him while i still have a hold over him. what should i do, know this woman who's older and more dynamic than me seems to have a hold over him and he now got the courage like he never did before to approach her. i really want him back. I know the easiest due course is for someone to deter me. but i want constructive help to win him back. we were so happy together. the thing is, he's unlikely to commit to this woman who is much older than us.
he also knows that his mom likes me and not her. thro the years that i know him, i came to realise he's rich, which makes me think he has trouble to commit, and with this other woman as well. but we were in love, we never want to break up and i would like to make him mine.
im asking not what to do with the relationship but what i can do to turn things around and have him come back to me.
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I hope it works out for you... I kind of have the same situtation... He keeps me hanging on then he will just stop talking to me and I never know what the deal with him is! Guys are just so complicated!
Posted by Blondi on 6/25/2008 9:15:00 AM (Report abuse)
good luck!
Posted by Tao on 11/19/2007 3:16:00 AM (Report abuse)
:) okay good luck.hope you get him back. by the way am a female.
Posted by Gul on 10/27/2007 9:36:00 AM (Report abuse)
thank you Gul. by the sound of yr name, u maybe a male, whose perspective on this is very relevant and i really appreciate. moving on is always an option, in every relationship, in all scenarios, without a doubt.
im thinking he would also know how much time we have spent together. i would like to be able to work the relationship in my favor, while he think to have me as part of his life that is so useful to him. Given the situation, i like to know how to step it up or turn the situation to my favor. Anyone with that dexterity.
im thinking he would also know how much time we have spent together. i would like to be able to work the relationship in my favor, while he think to have me as part of his life that is so useful to him. Given the situation, i like to know how to step it up or turn the situation to my favor. Anyone with that dexterity.
Posted by Sass on 10/26/2007 6:05:00 PM (Report abuse)
dunno sass but the guy seems dicey to me.would suggest stop being a restroom for him ...whenever he needs u he calls u and you are available.Have respect for yourself.move on,life will bring better people to u.
Takecare and am sorry if i was harsh on you but its writing on the wall,just open your eyes and realise the truth
Takecare and am sorry if i was harsh on you but its writing on the wall,just open your eyes and realise the truth
Posted by Gul on 10/26/2007 8:56:00 AM (Report abuse)
today, i just spoke to my bf.
he was chirpy, happy that he has a guest in town, when i called in, and say he'll like to speak to me in 2 hours.
is this a good sign or bad. should i call him back?
he was chirpy, happy that he has a guest in town, when i called in, and say he'll like to speak to me in 2 hours.
is this a good sign or bad. should i call him back?
Posted by Sass on 10/25/2007 10:44:00 PM (Report abuse)
no comments, no help?
it's disappointing, cos i have come up here to help others with their troubles...
it's disappointing, cos i have come up here to help others with their troubles...
Posted by Sass on 10/25/2007 10:43:00 PM (Report abuse)