I always wondered why girls hate when men watch porn. I mean I get it if that is all he does, but usually its harmless.
My husband and I occasionally watch porn with those stupid stories. Its good for a laugh and then ya just have sex afterwards. Haahaha. Or during.hahahahahahaha. But I guess we are a weird pair. : )
I say since he is 18, OF COURSE he is looking at other girls. You're just 14(no offense). You're still a kid and he is a new "adult". I can almost promise that he is either A) fooling around with other girls, or B) is about to.
If you have to PRY stuff out of him, then something is up.
Now that he's had you in bed, he may just be looking for someone to do next. : /
Usually just a hand means someone is trying to reach out and tell you something. Or someone could be reacting there death..but...since you just saw a hand, I'd say someone is trying to tell you something, or just letting you know that they are there. If that was it,just a hand that disappears, then I wouldn't be worried. But the activity could increase. You'll just have to wait it out.
If you are worried or something, just burn sage.(It works)
Just remind them that you are an adult now, and they should to respect your adulthood. Meaning that they need to know that you are ready to be let off the leash.
My parents were like that when I told them I was moving out on my 18th birthday. : / They got over it pretty quickly.
It was actually with my husband(before we had actually started dating)
He was walking me home, as we had been hanging out at a mutual friends house. We stopped infront of my moms house and started talking about something, I honestly wasn't paying attention. I kept staring at his mouth and he leaned down and kissed me.
It was great.
(Btw...someone had commented on not knowing about herpes until they were 14/15-or older.*snickers*)
"You do realise that you will subsequently move on to harder drugs and become a junkie poluting our streets and robbing innocent and decent people"
That's a dumb thing to say.Haha.
I had smoked weed a few times(which I HATE to admit,asseenbelow) when I was younger. I never did anything else. Never became a junkie, and never robbed anyone....
So to say that THAT WILL happen, is dumb. It COULD happen,yes.
Things like that should really be done in private. You are pretty young too. : / But I have heard of kids younger than that having sex and gettin' prego.
Its kind of shitious that your losing your friends over some overly excited hormones. Haha.
But I say REALLY think about what can happen if you do decide to have sex. Pregnancy, STD's,etc..
I say your too young. Having a baby is hard HARD work. You will most likely have to drop out of school to take care of your baby, but what job will you get to pay for the THOUSANDS of dollars in baby costs? You still have to wait a few years to be a stipper or a pornstar....(God forbid)
Plus, you are being very selfish, using your boyfriend for sperm. Lying to him like that? If you do become pregnant, you cannot be slefish at all! AT ALL! Baby needs first! Baby happiness FIRST! Just WAIT!!
I was raped a few years ago and I was so scared, I never turned him in. I told my husband and that was it. He wanted me to turn him in, but I was so scared and weak. I completely regret it. It has completely messed my life up. I live in fear!
...I am so ashamed. The shitious thing about it was that he WAS my best friend, who is in the army. Uck.
Turn him in! Turn him in! You'll hate yourself if you don't!