confusedkid15
u cant let an experience with a loser like that keep you from having other relationships. Not all guys will use u like that, trust me, im a guy and i would never use a girl like that. U just gotta try and let the past be the past and move on, if u keep letting this bad experience get in the way of any relationship u have, u could miss out on some great guy that will make you happy.
in my opinion its easy to go from friend to friendlier haha, all u gotta do is just go for it, alot of guys like a girl who is confident to make the first move, im a guy and i love a girl who is confident enough to ask the guy out instead of the other way around. So just go for it
ok im am a guy and i saw this post and i just had to get this out there. MEN ARE NOT COMPLICATED!!!! ok, we are very simple creatures, we are straight forward. If we are mad we tell u, when we are happy we tell u, we dont play mind games or anything like women do.
im just gona guess and say that maybe he thinks that you still have feelings for him so u will be easier to get stuff out of than trying to get it from some new girl
i had the almost the same situation, except both my parents were white and they were married when my dad cheated on my mom. They got a divorce and i used to see him in the summer but after my mom remarried i stopped seeing him. Like last year i started getting curious about him again so i looked on the internet and stuff for him but didnt find anything, i eventually asked my mom and she told me something that changed me forever. Apparently my father took his own life a few years after my mom remarried and she decided to hide that from me to protect me. So if i were you i would ask your mom about ur father if you really want to get to have a relationship with him, cause u nvr know what will happen, so ask your mom about him and try to get closer to him, i sure wish i had tried to find my dad again earlier, cause now i will never get a chance to have that relationship with him that i wanted
ummmmm 12 is way to young, i would seriously suggest waiting. but if you cant wait atleast tell a parent so you can get all the protection you need so you dont wind up pregnant or with an std. But i would realllly suggest waiting until like atleast 15
3 years is a long time man, it took me a while to get over my last girlfriend, and i still think about her but faking an overdose is a bit extreme. If she has moved on you should do the same. I know its hard to forget someone you love, but living in the past isnt anyway to live
i say just tell them, if they are true friends they will accept you no matter what ur job is.
ok just to this out there, sex is not the only thing guys want and we are not all ass holes. I am a guy and sex isnt my number one priority and im pretty sure im not an asshole. But that u slept with, now he sounds like an asshole. I know its hard to hear but it seems like he only wanted you for sex so you really shouldnt feel bad that your not with him anymore. You should be happy that u arent with someone who doesnt care about you. I think you should just try your best to let the past be the past and move on, try and find a guy who will truly care about you
I know how u man. When i broke up with my last girlfriend i was a wreck. It was like she was the only thing that gave my life meaning and without her i was nothing. But you cant live ur life in the past, its not good for you. I know that it hurts that she is gone, believe me ive felt that pain before, but u cant let it control you. If you truly think that things between you and her can be fixed then go for it, but if she has moved on and has no interest in going back then you have to let her go. What i did when i had to get over my ex was i got rid of everything that reminded me of her, i took her number out of my phone, i got rid of her pictures, i took her of my IM. That was the only way that i could stop thinking about her. And trust me, drinking wont solve anything, it just numbs the pain, it doest get rid of it. Put down the bottle and find something to do that makes you happy. Play a sport, or take up a new hobby, or just go on a vacation for a bit, just get away from all the problem that you have, you will be suprised by how much a little vacation can help you forget your problems. I wish you luck
u just gotta sit down and ask him what he finds most pleasurable and then you tell him what u like the most, the key to great sex is communication, trust me.... and im with you on this, public places are definetly the best places to have sex, its like the fear of getting caught makes it alot better, oh and im a guy by the way
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