give him a couple of warnings about being out drunk and lying. tell him this when hes sober so he doesnt have an excuse for forgeting. if he keeps coming home drunk after that, leave him. it shows taht he doesnt really care for u enough 2 change his ways. but if he does change or start going 2 counceling dont leave him. just give him a few "strikes" because if hes an alcoholic itll b realy hard 4 him 2 stop drinking. good luck, and if he desnt change dont b afraid 2 break up with him. ur kids might love him now, or think htey do, but when they get older annd he keeps on doing this, theyll hate him and resent you for not leaving him. again good luck and i hope it all works out for u!!! :-)