(Me again.) We all have our days. You're going to have other moments in your life like this one, too. Try to hang in there when you start to feel discouraged. We're so lucky to live in a day and age where there is such a thing as an epipen. (Although, on the flip-side, years ago there weren't these types of allergies - at least they weren't this prevelant...)
I'm glad my comment helped you to feel better. You, in turn, made me feel better when you reminded me that they can't miss what they never have. My kid is a real trooper - old enough to want everything and anything, yet already learning responsibility.
Sometimes, even the fact that they accept that they can't eat the same things as the rest of us at meal time, makes me sad! I should be overjoyed that they've adapted to that, but it still makes me sad. I don't sit there and feel sorry all the time or anything, but it's definitely an adjustment. You want nothing but the best and the healthiest life for your child. And, you're right about another thing, it isn't the worst thing to have. Thank you for that reminder. There are so many worse things out there. We have to remember to count our blessings, don't we.
I know it's got to be hard when your friends don't understand. It's always nice to talk to someone who does. I'm wondering, though, if you look around, if you might not be able to find someone else in the same boat as you...? You might be surprised! There are many, many people out there who carry epi's. I wish you all the best!