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LOL. I AM NOT LAUGHING THAT HE DIED. I AM LAUGHING AT THE ALL CAPS.
  • 6/28/2009 9:01:00 PM
lmao. nice
  • 6/25/2009 10:50:00 PM
Nobody deserves to be treated like that.

Just talk to him. Let him know that if there is a problem he needs to communicate that to you like an adult instead of being passive aggressive and making you feel bad about yourself. Let him know that if he doesn't communicate and try to work it out that you won't stick around.

I hope you find a solution that makes you happy.
  • 6/25/2009 10:55:00 PM
You seem overwhelmed. If you can you should talk to a psychologist.

As far as art and music goes there will always be people who are better at it than you but there are probably more who are not.

I know you feel hopeless right now. I've definitely been down in the dumps and I know how hard it is to get out. Maybe you don't even feel like trying right now but get help and try to live healthy. Once you get the ball rolling things will get better. You should try to exercise a few times a week. You'll be amazed at how exercise lifts your mood.

Realize that this is YOUR life and the only person who controls how you feel is you. So help yourself, take control, and get better.

Hang in there. You'd be amazed at what you're capable of.
  • 6/24/2009 12:59:00 AM
That sucks that you feel so alone. Just remember that you won't always feel this way. It will pass and things will get better. Maybe you can make more friends.
  • 6/23/2009 1:51:00 AM
My friend and I rock out to Nsync while we're in car. I won't judge you. There will always be a spot in my heart for boy bands.
  • 6/20/2009 2:24:00 PM
I like to believe that there is a higher power but there are certain Christian things that I really disagree with. Whether you believe in God or not it helps to stay optimistic. When you're going through really bad times you have to remember that good will come of it- you will learn an important lesson, or grow as a person. For example, I just broke up with my bf of 5 years. It sucks and it is devistating but I have learned a great deal about myself and relationships and that I deserve more. So it is not all bad. I will be better off in the long run.

There are a few things about the bible the make it hard to understand. It was originally written in Hebrew and when you translate languages some words lose meaning or there isn't a word in english that has the same Hebrew meaning. So things become harder to interpret. The bible wasn't written by one person either. Different books written by different people were compiled together. Each of those people had a different writing style. Some of them wrote literally and some of them wrote figuratively. It's hard to know which is which though.

I've heard excellent and legitimate arguments for both Christianity and Evolution. It's definitely a head scratcher.



  • 6/16/2009 1:24:00 AM
girl i know how you feel. sounds like a sticky situation where the one who suffers is you and that is not fair.
  • 6/15/2009 11:55:00 PM
I like the hair. I think it is very manly and is a huge turn on. But a little bit of trimming is nice. Especially if it is thick or long.
  • 6/10/2009 2:48:00 AM
I know how you feel. I am a sensitive person and I am easily disturbed by the situations you mentioned. People just get hurt and become hardened I guess. It is really sad.
  • 6/10/2009 2:52:00 AM
haha that grosses me out more than anything.
  • 6/4/2009 3:41:00 PM
Sounds like you're a bit bored with your normal routine. Change it up a bit! Do new things this summer. The thing that makes life special is the meaning that we give it.

And don't worry about the boyfriend thing. Someone will come your way when you least expect it.
  • 6/4/2009 11:07:00 AM
Wow. That is awful of her to say those things. It seems like she is projecting her insecurities onto you. My mom did that to me too. Don't let her unhappiness bring you down.


  • 6/4/2009 11:14:00 AM
Then why are you wasting your time? Find someone who really does care about you and you'll see how rewarding that is.
  • 6/4/2009 11:18:00 AM
Girl... You need to cut him out of your life. He will keep doing this to you if you let him!
  • 6/4/2009 11:23:00 AM
There are times when a person knows that the relationship they are in is not good for them. It is hard to leave because your past keeps you together but when it isn't right, it isn't right. Just because someone broke up with you doesn't make it easy for them. Their feelings of love for you will only go away if there is no contact with you. If you don't take time apart, it is hard to let go. After a few months or a year it is easier to talk again. But trying to be friends too soon will make things very hard and may bring up jealousy or confusion.
  • 6/3/2009 1:02:00 AM
Run 1 mile everyday. Getting dressed to run, getting your running shoes on and running the mile will only take 20 minutes out of your day.

Also cut unnecessary sweets out of your diet like sodas or extra candy. You don't have to cut out everything that is tasty, just limit yourself.

Do it for the right reasons. If you look in mirror everyday and insult yourself that will make it harder and it will make you feel bad. Don't get fit with the goal of being skinny, do it because it will make you feel good mentally and physically. Do it to have a healthy body.
  • 6/3/2009 1:18:00 AM
These are the most important things you can give a woman you love:

1. Support: This means supporting her decisions, letting her make her own decisions, trusting her to make her own decisions, and sticking up for her in front of others, especially friends and family. Friends and family especially need to know that you and her are a team and any rude behavior toward her will not be tolerated.

2. Love: Be sure your actions support your words. It's not about buying her fancy things and acting like the lead male of a cheesy romance novel.Something as simple as a love note or a single rose will be enough. Hug her, kiss her even when you're not going to have sex.

3. Effort: Try to get along with her friends and family. Take interest in her interests. Pick up after yourself when you're at her place. Be there when you say you will. Pay attention to what she likes.

4. Validation: Help her sort out her feelings by listening to her and understanding that she has every right to feel the way she does. (This will help her get over negative feelings.) A woman is capable of making her own judgments in situations. Never tell her that her perceptions are wrong.

  • 6/2/2009 1:26:00 PM
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