These are the most important things you can give a woman you love:
1. Support: This means supporting her decisions, letting her make her own decisions, trusting her to make her own decisions, and sticking up for her in front of others, especially friends and family. Friends and family especially need to know that you and her are a team and any rude behavior toward her will not be tolerated.
2. Love: Be sure your actions support your words. It's not about buying her fancy things and acting like the lead male of a cheesy romance novel.Something as simple as a love note or a single rose will be enough. Hug her, kiss her even when you're not going to have sex.
3. Effort: Try to get along with her friends and family. Take interest in her interests. Pick up after yourself when you're at her place. Be there when you say you will. Pay attention to what she likes.
4. Validation: Help her sort out her feelings by listening to her and understanding that she has every right to feel the way she does. (This will help her get over negative feelings.) A woman is capable of making her own judgments in situations. Never tell her that her perceptions are wrong.