Jotiii
hiiii :)
I think you should just send him this.
Uh. Don't flirt then.
There are millions of girls out there who would kill for a guy like your boyfriend, who loves and trusts you completely. Can it really be that hard for you not to flirt with his friends? I despise it when boys do it, and when girls do it. Tell them to stop flirting. If it makes you feel bad, you know it's wrong. The solution shouldn't be so hard if you truly love your boyfriend like you say you do.
There are millions of girls out there who would kill for a guy like your boyfriend, who loves and trusts you completely. Can it really be that hard for you not to flirt with his friends? I despise it when boys do it, and when girls do it. Tell them to stop flirting. If it makes you feel bad, you know it's wrong. The solution shouldn't be so hard if you truly love your boyfriend like you say you do.
Cutee.
If you're not ready for a serious relationship, which you just clearly stated yourself, then break up with him. Why are you afraid of dealing with the consequences when you don't even want a serious relationship? I don't think you're ready.
I don't understand how that could possibly turn you on either. It's sick, to say the least. Were you taught properly?
That doesn't mean you were almost raped. I'm sure if he wanted to rape you, you saying "no" wouldn't have stopped him.
I didn't mean to sound like it's not a problem or something, just pointing out that the title kind of jumped to conclusions considering what actually happened. But yes, it's not right and someone should be told.
Awesome :D
Firstly, i'm sorry that happened to you.
It seems like there's a possibility that he did only want you for sex, at first. But as you both got closer, he may have started to develop stronger feelings for you, and that was not his intentions. It might have scared him how much he liked you when he wasn't planning to. That's what i think, but it may not be right. You should really seek answers from him, because saying that is not right.
It seems like there's a possibility that he did only want you for sex, at first. But as you both got closer, he may have started to develop stronger feelings for you, and that was not his intentions. It might have scared him how much he liked you when he wasn't planning to. That's what i think, but it may not be right. You should really seek answers from him, because saying that is not right.
Maybe you should attempt to talk to her about it. Turn up crying, and say you don't know what's going on. Tell her that her perception of you might be different than it was before, but you have an explanation and can't bare to let either of them walk out of your life.
Don't worry, just don't do it again. I know how you feel. Once i got angry and didn't say "i love you too" to my boyfriend, until he said "babyy, say it back"... it made me feel bad. I know how you feel.
They say that because they themselves regret losing it when they weren't ready.
I'd also advise to wait until the right person, and i'm a virgin with a boyfriend of a year.
I'd also advise to wait until the right person, and i'm a virgin with a boyfriend of a year.
Me.
Same here. That's love...
Hmm. So do i.
I don't think they deserve forgiveness, and i don't think a relationship can work if you're holding a grudge. I think you should leave him, personally. You deserve better than someone who'd cheat on you with your OWN sister. Good luck :)
That's a little mean... i'm skinny, and i'd feel awful flaunting infront of my non-skinny friends. I usually purposely make myself look a little worse, to avoid them feeling inadequate.
No, in my opinion its a pretty good thing. Thows guys aren't work your time, even they know that.
Yeah, people do that sort of thing. I endured racism my whole life, until a couple of years ago. I'm indian, btw. I was bullied through primary school, everyone was white. Even my friends were racist towards me, and i just sucked it up. People spitting at me, trying to hurt me. Strangers cussing at me, calling me 'paki' in the streets. Adults giving me dirty looks, and telling me to "go back to my own country". Rocks thrown through windows, family members attacked. I was a fucking kid for fuck sake, i didn't even have any friends. I've endured racism first hand, i don't think anyone knows how it feels unless they have too. Comments like this hurt, little things to the people who say them. I'm glad you called them racist bitches, i used to just sit there. Im only 16 now, but i have so much more confidence that if anyone said that to be they wouldn't get away with it. Never again.
Tell her, please! She wont believe it unless you tell her seriously.