i feel for you. i am sooo in love with my husband, and thats where im most confused. i just kind of having feelings for his brother too? why? i dont know. maybe because he brings out the qualities my husband doesnt have. and believe me, ive had to resist temptation to stop myself from doing anything more innappropriate than ive already done. just glad to hear im not the only person in the world that goes thru this, feel a little better actually.