Tell him, be honest and brave (: But before that, you must be 100% sure of your feelings for him. Grab the chance before you regret dear ;D Or if you want, you could try dropping hints or asking your other friend to ask him about what he feels towards you. good luck!
Ask yourself the worth of this girl compared to the 20 year relationship with your wife. yes, maybe in this period of time when things aren't working out very well, this girl you meet has made u happy for a while, but in the future, will she stay by your side?
What exactly happened that changed things between you and your wife? Try to work things out together, and start on making things afresh and get to know your wife from the start (: a little gift - flowers? something to do together - baking? and communication is impt in this.
all the best, hope u find true happiness in your love.
thanks a lot (: your message really brightened up my day. yeah, i guess i will. you too, hope things will be okay for u.
ask yourself if he really is worth all that pain and tears.
sometimes in relationships, a little unhappiness might be inevitable but if he cant make u truly happy then maybe that's not love, girl. if u think u made the right choice to let him go, then it doesnt matter what other people say about whether ure selfish or not.
hope ull find true love ;D