Lillica
I was exactly like that at your age. No boobs what-so-ever, and quite short. But they grew in, so there's no need to worry. You're still young, so chill! =)
You have no reason to kill yourself. You're not pathetic. You're still young, and you think that because a lot of your peers have had relationships and you haven't it makes you a loser. You have plenty of time to find the right person, so chill out.
While this didn't turn me on or gross me out, I found it interesting. I know how it feels for me to reach orgasm (yet I won't go into detail as you did), but I don't know what it's like for guys. So that was kind of an interesting read for me, to tell you the truth. I like knowing the feelings of others and how those feelings are for them as opposed to how they are for me.
It's weird to get used to them when you're young. If it's the bouncing that bothers you, find a bra that supports you really well. Other than that, there's really nothing you can do about them. Just be glad you have A-Cups, not D's. You'll get used to them, so don't panic.
Wow, that's just sad.
You're probably just nervous about being with a guy sexually. It's alright, you're only 26, and you don't have to be thinking about stuff like that just yet. I don't think you'd be gay/bi unless you start to have feelings towards others girls. It's okay to find some girls pretty, I mean I do, but that doesn't make me gay or bi.
Well, I'm 122 lbs and only 5'3". I think I'm pretty skinny at a size 4/5. Maybe gaining a little weight in your case wouldn't hurt! You'd probably look nice and healthy, and I've been told by numerous men that they like girls who look healthy, not just skinny.
Haha I do agree with Anonymous0623. Super nerds are a little creepy. But if you just want to be a little more nerdy, I would suggest these things:
- Read more comics/graphic novels. There are so many different Batman and Superman and another other super-hero comics out there that could keep you well occupied for decades. Even if you're not too into superheroes (which is blasphemous for any nerd), there are comics out there that have nothing to do with superheroes!
-Watch more "nerdy" TV. I've heard BattleStar Galactica, Doctor Who, and the newer Star Treks are pretty good, though I've never seen them. Or you could go old school and pick up some original Star Trek with Kirk or Picard (I prefer Kirk myself, but that's just because Shatner's the man).
-Books. Harry Potter, Percy Jackson, The Zombie Survival Guide and/ore World War Z (both by Max Brooks). If you want to appeal more to chicks try Pride And Prejudice And Zombies, or Sense And Sensibility and Sea Monsters. I would also check out Abraham Lincoln; Vampire Hunter (by the same author of the last two), though it's not out yet. Looks good to me!
- Movies! Star Trek, Star Wars, anything with zombies, old school horror flicks, B-Movies, etc.
Anyway, good luck, have fun, live long and prosper, and may the Force be with you!
- Read more comics/graphic novels. There are so many different Batman and Superman and another other super-hero comics out there that could keep you well occupied for decades. Even if you're not too into superheroes (which is blasphemous for any nerd), there are comics out there that have nothing to do with superheroes!
-Watch more "nerdy" TV. I've heard BattleStar Galactica, Doctor Who, and the newer Star Treks are pretty good, though I've never seen them. Or you could go old school and pick up some original Star Trek with Kirk or Picard (I prefer Kirk myself, but that's just because Shatner's the man).
-Books. Harry Potter, Percy Jackson, The Zombie Survival Guide and/ore World War Z (both by Max Brooks). If you want to appeal more to chicks try Pride And Prejudice And Zombies, or Sense And Sensibility and Sea Monsters. I would also check out Abraham Lincoln; Vampire Hunter (by the same author of the last two), though it's not out yet. Looks good to me!
- Movies! Star Trek, Star Wars, anything with zombies, old school horror flicks, B-Movies, etc.
Anyway, good luck, have fun, live long and prosper, and may the Force be with you!
You have to be careful though. Some nerds can be simply adorable in my opinion. My boyfriend could be considered a little nerdy because he loves superheroes and whatnot, but he's still manly, knows when too much nerdiness is too much, and is still very good looking. I just find that knowledge of the best superheroes/villains is pretty sexy.
But you can go overboard. You don't want to be the guy who's still collecting Pokemon cards well into his 30's, living with his parents, and playing video games all day instead of getting a job.
But you can go overboard. You don't want to be the guy who's still collecting Pokemon cards well into his 30's, living with his parents, and playing video games all day instead of getting a job.
Not only do I hate Uggs, but I hate Crocs too. The only argument that people can come up with to defend them is "But they're comfortable!" So what? You can comfortable shoes that look MUCH better than that! Uggs are pretty much slippers that were made to look like boots so it would be more acceptable to wear them in public, and Crocs are just glorified gardening shoes that should be used for just that - gardening!
My 9th grade history teacher told me that Nazi's used to do experiments on Jewish babies when they had the chance. They'd put them in separate rooms. They would feed them both, change both of their diapers, clothe both of them, etc. But only one of them they would talk to, hold, play with, etc. The other one grew sick and eventually died, while the other stayed healthy.
Well, you're the only one being professional about the whole situation, and you got the diamonds in the end. XD Love Reservoir Dogs.
On a side note, I agree with you.
On a side note, I agree with you.
"Everyone's a little bit racist sometimes. Doesn't mean we go around committing hate crimes. Look around and you will find no one's really color blind. Maybe it's a fact we all should face, everyone makes judgements based on race."
I think Avenue Q says it perfectly.
I think Avenue Q says it perfectly.
Making them understand that it could be a great memory, like TheMaster said, could really help. Also suggest that maybe you could call them before you go to sleep to say good night and let them talk to your friend's parents.
That is pretty rude, but I have to agree on some level. People who really do want to commit suicide don't waste time posting about it on the internet. At least, not the ones who don't want help. If someone posts on the internet that they want to kill themselves, or talks about it to their friends all the time, it's just a cry for help.
It's better to be alone than be with someone who doesn't care about you. Don't try to argue that he does, because if he did care about you, he wouldn't be with some other chick. Leave him before you get hurt. You'll find someone much better out there who deserves you, and won't treat you like crap and cheat on you.
I used to feel like that. I never felt like going to hang out with my friends because I had video games, movies, and TV shows to attend to, as well as a fully stocked kitchen and air conditioning/heating. Then after graduation (not during the summer, but afterwards) a lot of my friends either got jobs, went to college, or were still in high school. I didn't have the financial means of going to college, and I was applying for jobs everywhere with no luck. I wasn't able to hang out with any of my friends because they were all busy, and when I did have the chance I always had something else to do... like make a new family on the Sims, unlock new songs on Rock Band, or catch up on my TV shows. I just had no interest in leaving my nice, cozy home. Now that I'm working I have no time to see any of my friends even if I wanted to. I rarely have off, and when I do, they don't. It really sucks, and I regret not hanging out with them when I had the chance.
So my suggestion to you? Get up off your lazy bum and do it! It's been proven that people who are more social lead longer, healthier lives. Also, I've found that talking to people helps keep you in the loop of what's going on around you. Before I had a job, I never heard anything that was going on in my town or with people I knew because I never saw anyone. Now on the off chance that one of my friends comes into my work, I get to hear stuff. Being social has a lot of advantages, so I suggest you try it!
So my suggestion to you? Get up off your lazy bum and do it! It's been proven that people who are more social lead longer, healthier lives. Also, I've found that talking to people helps keep you in the loop of what's going on around you. Before I had a job, I never heard anything that was going on in my town or with people I knew because I never saw anyone. Now on the off chance that one of my friends comes into my work, I get to hear stuff. Being social has a lot of advantages, so I suggest you try it!
Being "in love" with someone can be very tricky. Most of the time, especially at such a young age, you may think you're in love with someone when you really just have a big crush on them. I like to evaluate exactly how I feel about a person before saying I'm in love with them. I should have done that with my first two boyfriends, but I didn't. I said "I love you" to them before I was even sure I did. Now that I think about it, I wasn't at all. Sure I cared about them on some level, and I liked spending time with them and whatnot. But I was't even close to loving them.
Before I started dating my current boyfriend, I knew I felt very strongly about him, but I wasn't sure how strong that feeling was. I thought about it for weeks before I decided that there was no avoiding the fact that I was actually in love for the first time. But I thought about it HARD. I wanted to make sure this time.
So I suggest you do the same to prevent being so depressed for no good reason.
Before I started dating my current boyfriend, I knew I felt very strongly about him, but I wasn't sure how strong that feeling was. I thought about it for weeks before I decided that there was no avoiding the fact that I was actually in love for the first time. But I thought about it HARD. I wanted to make sure this time.
So I suggest you do the same to prevent being so depressed for no good reason.
I know what you mean, kailover94. I'm like that as well, although when tons of stuff goes wrong all in one day I can get a little overwhelmed and break down into tears.
People actually used to think I was a les, too. Haha I have never kissed a girl nor ever wanted to, but because of my tomboyish behavior and dress people thought I was into girls. I hated it when people were like "Hey, don't knock it if you've never tried it!" I never WANT to try it, dumbass! I have some friends who are lesbians and bi because I'm accepting of who they are, not because I'm one of them! People can be so judgmental sometimes.
People actually used to think I was a les, too. Haha I have never kissed a girl nor ever wanted to, but because of my tomboyish behavior and dress people thought I was into girls. I hated it when people were like "Hey, don't knock it if you've never tried it!" I never WANT to try it, dumbass! I have some friends who are lesbians and bi because I'm accepting of who they are, not because I'm one of them! People can be so judgmental sometimes.
Sometimes I feel like I'm doing that with my boyfriend. Some of his friends just sound like so much fun to be around that I feel like I have to meet them. He talks about them so often that it feels like I already know them anyway, so I can't really help it.