lisabee

my name is lisa i am 13 and i have a secret life!

u have to listen to me- tell somone who cares like a teacher or a family member. i know it can be really embarassing but they wont see that. u need help if u dont tell anyone ur gonna turn out really messed up

i find that when i am feeling down, i will talk to a person i dont know, like one of those chatrooms, tell them everything. it feels so much better and no one you know has to know. you can get advice from them too. but it is best to take that step and talk to someone you know as well. you will feel lots better in the end.

please dont cut, i know life may be diffcult but do something else that will keep u busy. i actually used to cut as well, but then i began running, it does cause some pain but u feel so good once u are finished. it gets ur mind off stuff, keeps u active, relieves stress, and its nice to feel the pain. cutting is much more dangerous though. weather u like it or not, people care about you, i know someone does and cutting in the wrong spot, even on ur wrist could end your life. think about the kids who have is harder then you do. like the ones in iraq, where bombs are being blown up in their faces and their parents lives were taken, they dont cut, they do what they can to survive. so you should be happy for what u have everyday!

lol, wtf? thats so funny. but if u really love..goldy then do whatever u want with him,her, it...as long as goldy is ok with it

when u first get ur period its totally irregular, it could be gone for a few months or even a year, and it even may not be totally regular until a few years from now.