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livelife

I know how you feel. Its a pretty hard thing to get used to.... that maybe your actually gay.
  • 6/20/2009 9:18:00 AM
aha I know.. i'd date you ;)
  • 6/20/2009 9:19:00 AM
gul what secret? aha i'd like to know?
damn i wish there was chat on here to actually talk... sucks that your old too... too old for me i gues... aaha
  • 6/20/2009 6:57:00 PM
I couldn't have said it better than any of these people that have commented on this entry.
Firstly, II dont believe that sexuality is just black and white.. you can love a man or you can love a woman... or you can love both. You fall in love with someone for who they are... not what they are.
Personally, Im not straight.. and I haven't even been able to be open to my family because the world has made it such a big deal to be anything but ordinary.
I believe in God. But the god I believe in.. isn't the one that you do. The God that i believe in doesn't discriminate against ANYONE. Doesn't matter your race, colour, religion, sexuality, gender. The God that i believe in loves everyone for who they are. And i believe the catholic church isn't even speaking for God anymore... but more for themselves..
I'm sorry... you are entitled to an opinion... but your opinion is very incorrect. In any other case i believe that statement would be arrogant. But in this case.. its not. How can you tell me that I am not living under the path of God... I treat others with respect.. I love my brothers and sisters ... i honour my mother and father.. but just because i don't love who you you believe i should.., I am not living under God.
You... Me... Everyone... deserves the right to be happy.
Why cant you just give peace a chance?
  • 6/2/2009 10:19:00 PM
Ive said that so much.. And what I meant by it was im so tired of trying to be with you and loving you without anything in return. I could be so much happier with someone who loves me and gives me the time of day. So basicaly what it could mean is he / she is tired of trying to love you and liking you but it ends up going nowhere.
Just my interpretation
  • 5/31/2009 6:09:00 PM
It happens to a lot of us.. ive been or should i say was? in love with my best friend... im not too sure if she new....
do you feel the same?... because best friend relationships can really turn out well.. especially gay ones :)
  • 5/7/2009 2:43:00 PM
Well if she doesn't make you happy... Then I would break it off and try to find someone new... Preferably a girl because you can't make yourself straight..
  • 5/3/2009 8:43:00 AM
Honestly i've been in this exact situation... In fact I easily could be your "bestfriend" but in my opinion you should tell her how you feel.. If you have a lpretty good feeling that she likes you too than you have nothing to worry about and could get through the whole coming outprocess together. Don't wait too long to become honest with her... This coming from experience... People tend to second guess themselves and wonder if "maybe she likes me" is all in their head.
Best of luck... I hopeyou tell her..
  • 5/3/2009 8:49:00 AM
You know what sucks...
falling in love with your best friend who's the same gender as you.... but not having the guts to tell them...
because telling them risks a whole lot more than having your heart broken...
  • 4/27/2009 10:23:00 PM
In the exact same situation.....
check out my secrets....
EXACT
  • 4/25/2009 10:33:00 PM
whats your first name.. just so i can know its not you..
  • 4/18/2009 8:24:00 PM
Aha I've been there...
I guess theres only one way to find out right..
  • 4/13/2009 8:07:00 PM
To me... it means that people look beyond peoples appearances when they are in love.
It doesnt care if you fall in love with a woman or a man.. or a black or a white... its beyond that...
  • 4/1/2009 8:38:00 PM
Hi girl.
I think we have a lot in common... except i don't exactly have a boyfriend... i never let things get that far knowing im not fully committed and am not sure what i exactly want.
I've recently come to terms that i'm gay..
it sucks.. i guess right now... just because i haven't told anyone. and because i'm not comfortable with it yet.
If i were you i wouldnt tell anyone your not sure of.. if word gets around it will only stress you out if your not comfortable with it yet.
Just dont fret about what you ARE. If youu like boys you like boys.. if you like girls your like girls.. if you like both.. you like both..
Its really not a big deal.. I used to think it was HUGE (still do) but you have your whole life ahead of you... all you can do is enjoy it.
Hope I helped. check out some of my secrets and my comments on others.. they might help. and if you want to talk more about it with me... then you can give me your email or well arrange something becuase im not too down for exchanging emails so publicly.
Best luck to you..
  • 2/23/2009 6:51:00 PM
I hear you girl...
it sucks... actually...
Im; going through it...
but to tell you the truth... love doesn't need an age to be real...
  • 2/2/2009 8:30:00 PM
what's your innitials...
  • 1/28/2009 6:25:00 PM
this reminds me of my situation... only im the other friend...
and my side of it is.. that i care so much about her.. but she doesnt even act like she likkes me at all.
im holding on to her even though i know i should let go.. and when your drunk... its hard to controll waht you say.. so i tell her i love her even though i know i shouldnt because shes not worth being my friend at all.

and you despise her? for what.. i dont even know your whole situation or who you are.. but from mine.. you dont act like you like me at all when your drunk or when your sobre.. so atleast me telling you that i love you when im drunk.. is the only way i can still pretend that theres something between us...
but im done pretending...
  • 1/2/2009 4:07:00 PM
this is a beautiful secret..
i know it might sound cliche to tell you to "tell them how you feel" but what you just spoke in these couple of paragraphs is worth saying.
  • 11/28/2008 11:02:00 PM
I'd have to dissagree with you on that flimnit...
Its true you have to believe and have hope. You have to have hope and keep faith that there is something greater to this world.
I think what you are saying is kind of a depressing way of looking at life in general.
  • 11/24/2008 10:05:00 PM
qwertyass is just a creeeeeeep.
  • 11/23/2008 6:26:00 PM
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