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livibetter

There is a funny saying "Dogs have masters, cats have staff" which means you listen to your cats, not your cats listen to you. :)

But it's not so true, however, honestly, cat is more difficult to deal with. They are unbelievable cute, so you are hardly can say No to them. Even you are mad, they are still not listening to you most of time. They are very cunning, they know you meant No, but they love testing your limitation.

I agree that you should start with kittens. They may know you better and so do you, but kittens are like human baby, they need a lot of care. And they couldn't stop crying sometimes (sounds like a real baby).

Some cats don't really want to deal with you, they don't want to play with you. I had time with one, she was really a *cool* cat. Some are keeping bugging you.

I suggest you should find someone already has cats and stay with them for a while. Trying to take care of them, feeding them, caring them, cleaning up litter box, so you can know if you really can deal with them or not. Or, you can just go to animal shelter to play with them for a while.

If you are okay, then I hope you can go to animal shelter to adopt one. They got kittens, too, not just adults. If it's a male kitten, neuter him when he is older enough, so he wouldn't go out and knock up others as how he was conceived. Well, you probably want to spay female, too. Without spaying or neutering, you would listen to their baby crying and sometimes it's kind of scary.

Cat is person, they have personality. I love being my cat's servant.

PS. I have written these in 2006 (http://www.flickr.com/photos/livibetter/1344479723/), "Cat is Evil":

Cat is Evil
They wake you up at 3 am becuase of their hungry
You can’t wake them up at 3 pm because of their tiredness from causing the air

Cat is more Evil
They wake you up at 3 am becuase of their hungry, but the bowl is full of food
You still can’t wake them up at 3o1 pm, you can only get a “leave-me-alone” from their eyes for sure

Cat is Evil
They want you to play with them whenever they want
When you want to play with them, you will get “who-is-that-idiot” from their eyes for sure

Cat is more Evil
They come, they conquer, they destroy
You fall back, you surrender, you are destroied

Cat is Evil
They mess up, they pretend “I am so so sorry”, they leave with smile
You anger, you forgive, you clean up what they leave for you

Yea, Cat is Evil

But

We still love them
  • 2/27/2010 12:51:00 AM
* written in 2007, photo in 2006. :)
  • 2/27/2010 12:51:00 AM
I am kind of emotionless for quite a long time. Nothing would really get me pissed off. (it's not a good thing at all)
  • 2/26/2010 1:35:00 PM
I don't against it and I am okay with those people. They are as same as us.
  • 2/26/2010 10:38:00 AM
Well, I am not even telling any of my true secrets here which I am really ashamed of. I don't post anonymous nor creating another account to post.

I have many secret that not even a single person knows, I really wish I have guts to tell someday.

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  • 2/26/2010 7:39:00 AM
No, it's about my cat. I will send him to you soon, chin. Hope you two will get alone well.

Going to piss off the cat a bit because I need to make a space for myself to sleep. He loves to use whole bed to sleep.

Night.
  • 2/25/2010 9:16:00 PM
An advise for you: if you read some comments get you negatively emotional, just ignore them. Please don't engage with them.
  • 2/25/2010 8:33:00 PM
Never too late for (almost) everything.
  • 2/23/2010 8:34:00 PM
Oh Man.......
  • 2/23/2010 8:19:00 PM
I can't agree any more with TheMaster.
  • 2/23/2010 7:20:00 PM
Sad songs I used to listen:

http://listen.grooveshark.com/#/s/Wake+Me+Up+When+September+Ends/1N3Ucc
http://listen.grooveshark.com/#/s/Just+Breath/hEevy
http://listen.grooveshark.com/#/s/The+Worst+Day+Since+Yesterday/2oukKJ
http://listen.grooveshark.com/#/s/Donald+Where+s+Your+Trousers+/11ze58 (This one is sad because of TSCC)

What songs are you listening to?
  • 2/23/2010 7:02:00 PM
Helping someone by killing them is still a crime, why drag someone down with you?
  • 2/23/2010 6:52:00 PM
I think I would lie to you if I could really travel to your place, then I sit next to you, talk to you, and watch over you all the time to make sure you wouldn't do it.
  • 2/23/2010 8:11:00 PM
This is how I describe myself, "Breathing but definitely not living."

I think I have accepted my own situation. I don't pretend I am okay because I know I'm not. I live a completely different life. Well, I still have one person can talk to, but I choose not to express because I don't need. I feel bad but I have accepted that because it couldn't be worser.
  • 2/23/2010 6:31:00 PM
I cooked this yesterday (it's past midnight here): http://www.flickr.com/photos/livibetter/4381026207/

It has rice and butter, and my favorite ingredients: Onion, Olive Oil, Garlic, and Black Pepper! (listed in order)
  • 2/23/2010 12:10:00 PM
*feeling ashamed*

It's not really something, I just put what I have in the pot. You know just need to wash one pot.

Anyway.

* Sliced Onion, Chopped Carrot: cook with butter until they got soften. I added olive oil, black pepper, and dry basil (only herb I have) because I love their flavor.
* Chicken legs: put them in
* Chopped German Sausage: fill the gap
* Rice: few handfuls
* Chopped Tomato: I also added tomato ketchup
* Chicken soup: I used chicken stock cube
* Cook until leg is very tender.

This is how I cook (not sure if I can say that's a cooking), just throw everything in. :D
  • 2/23/2010 12:20:00 PM
You couldn't imagine how long I have been staying at home. I'm not afraid of taking to people or being in a crowd of people. I am just too lazy to go out.

Computer + Bed + Bathroom + Kitchen + Cat is enough for me to live.
  • 2/23/2010 6:31:00 AM
I tried to figure out what you really want by reading your comments and secrets. I guess you want a true love who really knows you.

If you just want to talk/text to someone via phone, I know there are people who are doing but as friends, they both are girls.

If you want a friend to talk, I and other would try to help. But if you have wanted to find a true love _here_, I don't think that's possible.

I don't know how old are you but... even you are 50s, there is still chance as long as you want.

Sorry, couldn't be more helpful.
  • 2/22/2010 3:13:00 AM
No matter how great your love is money is always an issue in real-life. And since you are thinking about marriage, I believe you also have thought about kids, that would be another issue.

I think your mom is younger than him, I doubt any parents would want to see that. But time would prove your love and she might be understand someday.
  • 2/21/2010 9:19:00 PM
listen to a song http://youtu.be/Mm37p4ETax8 grab one, then..., just kidding.
  • 2/21/2010 6:46:00 PM
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