To Sandra & Safety: Comparing it to Twilight was simply a comparison. Don't assume any more than that. I feel that if we were not together we would be best friends. I have suggested counseling to him. He's a bit older & was previously married & said that it didn't help before (he said he felt blamed for everything) so he is refusing to go again. I have tried talking to him to see what's bothering him, then he shuts down or turns it into an argument. 1 thing that I know bothers him is that he can't get sex everyday. I know everything is not sunshine & rainbows, but now its mostly storms. Thanks again for all of ur opinions.