Member Since 2010
I do not like fat lard
I think rather than balls it's good to have thicker skin when you need it, I know I do :)
the only creature I can kill without mercy are cockroaches, but even then sometimes I scoop them up in a plastic container and throw them over the fence. large spiders or rodents (small mice) I'd throw them over the fence as well, ants, I try not to kill them too, they just need to be directed outside somehow (sometimes I'd give them drops of honey if there are many of them, so they are well fed and go back to their nests all happy).
just be civilized, keep calm, knowing she'll be gone soon