You're welcome, anonymous user ;D

I'm smelling something fishy here.


Think about it this way. If you heard the story from someone else, wouldn't your internal alarms be going off? Think about it and just use a little common sense. You honestly don't know who this man is, and he's not showing you--and there's a reason he isn't. If you value your well-being and your life, you'll end this before something tragic and downright horrifying happens.

I suggest getting some help. It could just be that you need to vent to someone like your girlfriend (which I would suggest first, because even if it doesn't help, I think she deserves to at least KNOW about it) or it could be something more. Sometimes something like medication or a change in diet/exercise can dramatically change your physical and mental health, and if it's affecting you to the point where it's making you sick, then that could be the issue. I just posted a secret called "I need to get back on track." Read it and see how dramatically a good diet, excercise, and medical regimen affected my life. Everyone's different, but it could work for you too.

Hope this helps :)

Try talking to him, and appealing to his more reasonable side. Explain to him that you potentially have diabetes (that's what you meant, right?), and the emotional toll of his actions are not helping, if not making things worse. If he's a reasonable human being, he should understand.

This is obviously a letter--one that for some reason you put on the internet instead of delivering it to the parties involved. Deliver it.

It's well-articulated, and as far as I can tell, this isn't the kind of letter that most wouldn't take seriously.

If they've got any semblance of logic, they should acknowledge your position and reflect upon it. If they can't or won't, and refuse to be mature, then they're not worthy of your friendship.

Love makes us all stupid, don't you think?

I have a friend who has that. It sucks. I'm really sorry you have to go through that.

Wow, i've had that as a blog on my myspace for the longest time! Maybe we know the same person :P

I am in love and living with an older man. I'm 18, he's 43. I wouldn't say it's a fetish for me... it just happened this way. I've always thought older guys with salt-and-pepper hair were attractive, though. My favorite male actors have always been middle-aged guys... like George Clooney, Richard Gere, and classy guys like that.

And there are a million different fetishes out there. Unless your fetish brings harm to yourself or others, exploring it could be a potentially healthy option.

What? You mean you don't support widespread discrimination of people based on the amount of melanin produced by their skin? SCANDALOUS!!!! ;D