My tastes in music are... old-fashioned to say the least. I particularly like putting in Tony Bennett to ease my tension and sort of take me back to an earlier time. His voice and his melodies are simply amazing. One of my favorites is "Young and Warm and Wonderful" from 1958:

Young and warm and wonderful
You are all I dreamed you'd be
Dreams that seemed improbable
All have once have come true, now I see

Every searching heart finds its happiness
Love is only a matter of time

Young and warm and wonderful at last
You're here my love, and love is mine

Every searching heart finds its happiness
Love is only a matter of time

Young and warm and wonderful at last
You're here, my love, and love is mine.

If you have a cellphone, keep it by you at all times. Don't leave your room unless you absolutely have to, and barricade your door with anything you've got. He's intoxicated, and it's impossible to reason with someone in that condition. And that makes him all the more dangerous. Can you call your mom? Tell her you're afraid for your life. That should get her attention. Or, if you don't have a cell, but have access to a computer, try emailing/IMing a friend and see if you can get them to call the police for you.
I'm sincerely concerned for your safety. Let me know when you're safe.

You're welcome, anonymous user ;D

I'm smelling something fishy here.


Think about it this way. If you heard the story from someone else, wouldn't your internal alarms be going off? Think about it and just use a little common sense. You honestly don't know who this man is, and he's not showing you--and there's a reason he isn't. If you value your well-being and your life, you'll end this before something tragic and downright horrifying happens.

Try getting to know him before you are convinced you're in love with him. Sometimes the most attractive specimen can be the ugliest on the inside.

A little restraint. that's all it takes.

It may seem like a formidible task to break up with a long-term partner. But honestly, gul is right. You're going to be much happier once you do.

Think of it like pulling off a bandaid. It'll cause you pain for a bit, and there will be a little bit of a wound--but one that is already in the process of healing and will be gone before you know it. And the reward will be much greater.

I just hope for your sake that this is the kind of thing that maintains it's allure even after it's no longer naughty. Sometimes the magic disappears once it's legitimate... I hope this is not the case.

Love isn't jealous. :/

Best wishes, and happy travels to you. You've got a journey ahead--I hope you take the right path.

I'm guessing you should move on. If you're not even part of the gender he's attracted to... I'm guessing there's no changing that.

Try to find someone with whom the love will be requited.

Best of luck.