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haha, I like the tags.
  • 3/26/2009 9:30:00 AM
Wowwwwww. What an awful/incredible story! I'm so glad you're alive to tell it!!!
  • 5/6/2009 1:41:00 PM
No one should ever have to beg for that most basic human right.


You're sick.
  • 3/13/2009 3:56:00 AM
I would too.
  • 3/12/2009 8:49:00 PM
I'm really really sorry about this... but as far as I know, statute of limitations is two years. If it happened all those years ago, i'm not sure if you can do anything about it... legally. If I were you, I'd cut his freaking balls off. People like him really piss me off to epic proportions. If I could, I'd take care of the bastard for you.

I know, I know. Violence isn't the answer, and I wouldn't actually harm another human being like that, because that sinks me down to their level. But sometimes I really wish I could. Just know that people like me are in your corner regardless.
  • 3/12/2009 8:48:00 PM
Wow, talk about a difficult situation.

You sound like you're really concerned for her, and that's good. Sometimes, tough love is what works best in cases like these, especially since your encouragement doesn't seem to be getting through to her. Talk to her guidance counselor, one of her teachers, or even one of her parents, if the relationship is ok with them. She will probably resent you for it at first, but given some time she should come to realize that you did what you did out of love.

Sometimes, insecurities just grip a person, and no matter what they are told by the person they love, they'll just believe what they've programmed themselves to. That's when you need a third party to step in. Hope this helps.
  • 3/6/2009 1:15:00 AM
Are there rehab programs available to you? You should try checking them out. If not, you should seek some guidance from someone you trust, like a professor, pastor, rabbi, or whomever you think could help the most. There are options available to you honey... don't give up yet!!!!
  • 3/5/2009 3:20:00 PM
Perhaps it's a thematic commentary on how the socioeconomic status of African Americans in urban communities requires attention and improvement? Or a statement that says positive race relations can exist between those of different ethnicities and backgrounds? Or that, with a little love and encouragement, even the most incorrigible child has a chance at being accepted by society, as opposed to being ostracized?

Maybe all three?
  • 3/5/2009 2:22:00 PM
I generally do... at least, I've got a pretty good head on my shoulders. What do you need? I'll be glad to give it a shot.
  • 3/4/2009 10:20:00 PM
Hey, rock bottom is some pretty solid ground. Just think of it that way.
  • 3/4/2009 10:22:00 PM
It's all in the body language. Google it, there're actually some helpful hints to be found in cyberspace.
  • 3/4/2009 10:24:00 PM
Hey, why not?

Check out the Uncle John's Bathroom Readers series. Trust me, you'll love them.
  • 3/4/2009 11:45:00 PM
Firstly, don't go saying that "normal" high schoolers drink. Many of them don't, and are still considered "normal." In fact, I've never placed all that much stock in the definition of normal to begin with. It sounds far too boring for me. If not drinking makes you unique, then I feel as though that's even more of a reason to remain sober.
As cliche as it sounds, you're experiencing peer pressure. If you're smart enough not to drink, then chances are, you're smart enough to already know that. Don't give in to it... high school goes by fast enough. Don't make it go faster by experiencing it through a drunken blur.
I suppose, though, if the people you hang out with are that important to you, you could try to beat them at their own game. I'm guessing that most high schoolers will get the booze they can afford to have their older siblings/cousins/friends buy for them, which is usually the cheap stuff. If you're at a party and someone asks you why you're not drinking, say something to the effect of, "Oh no, I don't drink beer (or whatever). I only drink the highest quality Kentucky bourbon, aged for at least four years." You'll seem classy, slightly baddass, or slightly snobby, but I suppose that depends on what type of people you choose to spend your time with.

Or you could just say "No, I prefer my liver the way it is." You choose.
  • 3/4/2009 3:50:00 PM
Hahaha, how cute.
  • 3/4/2009 3:32:00 PM
Praying, honey!
  • 3/3/2009 10:00:00 PM
Haha. How very... eccentric.

I like to walk around nekkid too... I don't yell at myself, but I enjoy the freedom.
  • 3/13/2009 3:55:00 AM
Congrats! It's always nice when those unexpected moments come your way.

So go ahead... keep workin' your magic on him!
  • 3/23/2009 4:03:00 PM
This is beautiful :)
  • 6/23/2009 5:32:00 PM
Just come clean about it.
  • 6/19/2009 12:07:00 AM
DAMN! Now that's what I call revenge!!!
  • 12/12/2008 2:36:00 PM
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