Penguin

The years that passed me by fill me with things that I have experienced firsthand. Abusive father, suicidal mother, boy problems, girl problems, sexuality issues, social issues, deep depression for years, self mutilation, low self esteem, and the list goes on. But what I have learned is to look up and look forward to a better day so that if I stumble, I can get back up. I comment on secrettalk so that I may help people find their own way for the better. Help is never too far. (:

I wouldn't have told her that unless I was willing to start the family from all the heart. Just cos she's unhappy doesn't necessarily mean that you'd need to make a child with her. Why not talk about why she's unhappy rather than tell her that you guys should have kids? If she says she wants kids and that's why she's unhappy, then why isn't being with you enough?

Food for thought. :)

I feel that way too.

I don't know what I'm going to do without a good friend, so I keep thinking that it'll get better... when I know it probably won't.

Try getting into an activity that you really like, such as a club (knitting, volunteering, something) and I'm sure you'll make friends, even if you aren't putting the total effort. You make friends when you're really into something, and you won't even realize it. (:

Wow, this made my day. xD

Good for you, I'm glad you gave your life a second chance. Congratulations on being happy and I hope you and your friend have a strong relationship throughout life. :D

Talk to her. Honestly, it's no good having a friend you can't communicate with, and it makes everything worse. Let her know that she's bugging you but don't tell her maliciously, just say you've been noticing some things. If it doesn't work out when you talk to her, then that's fine with you, and if it does work out, you have a friend whom you can have fun with again.

I hope it goes well for you, and whatever you choose to do may be right. (:

I guess you could try going into drama productions or... rhetoric/debate/speech classes. But in time, you kind of adapt to it and you gain confidence around the opposite sex as you grow older. It's less of a big deal later in life. (:

Firsts are really... uh, important. Hell, Asians aren't probably going to be running for president anytime soon.

In any case, a lot of why this election was really important was because of the economic situation and who would lead America; the 70+ year old guy who has experience but less than agreeable policies/vice president, or a more modern guy who is a bit more inexperienced but has the energy to try new things.

(:

I'm glad that you believe your life is going in a positive way. (:

It's not love, it's just that you think they understand you more because you're emotionally damaged. Just keep it chill and platonic. Don't act on anything until you set your emotions straight.

Privacy is taken for granted. (:

Yay for bedroom doors!