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Penguin

The years that passed me by fill me with things that I have experienced firsthand. Abusive father, suicidal mother, boy problems, girl problems, sexuality issues, social issues, deep depression for years, self mutilation, low self esteem, and the list goes on. But what I have learned is to look up and look forward to a better day so that if I stumble, I can get back up. I comment on secrettalk so that I may help people find their own way for the better. Help is never too far. (:
At least you googled yourself and got results of yourself.

I google myself and find a girl who set fire and hung herself. >.>;

I freaked out too, but found my way through most of it. I'm sure you'll find your way soon. (:
  • 2/9/2010 1:17:00 AM
I feel that way too.

I don't know what I'm going to do without a good friend, so I keep thinking that it'll get better... when I know it probably won't.

Try getting into an activity that you really like, such as a club (knitting, volunteering, something) and I'm sure you'll make friends, even if you aren't putting the total effort. You make friends when you're really into something, and you won't even realize it. (:
  • 2/9/2010 12:57:00 AM
It's completely normal, believe it or not. o:

No worries. (:
  • 7/10/2009 1:35:00 AM
Wow, this made my day. xD
  • 7/10/2009 12:17:00 AM
That happens to me. I see my uncle nekkid in the bathroom when I/he visits.

Most awkward thing ever. @.@
  • 7/9/2009 11:22:00 PM
Good for you, I'm glad you gave your life a second chance. Congratulations on being happy and I hope you and your friend have a strong relationship throughout life. :D
  • 7/7/2009 4:08:00 PM
Secrettalk has it's ups and downs, but you just gotta bear through it- some people are amazing while others need to shove it.

I wish I would be able to help, but public websites are known to have a lot of different personalities. People judge, though they shouldn't.

I hope it goes well for you sometime soon.
  • 7/7/2009 4:11:00 PM
Talk to her. Honestly, it's no good having a friend you can't communicate with, and it makes everything worse. Let her know that she's bugging you but don't tell her maliciously, just say you've been noticing some things. If it doesn't work out when you talk to her, then that's fine with you, and if it does work out, you have a friend whom you can have fun with again.

I hope it goes well for you, and whatever you choose to do may be right. (:
  • 7/7/2009 4:16:00 PM
Once you find a goal or a purpose, you start to see color in your life. I'm sure if you let yourself live and try new things, force yourself to be in different social situations and enroll in classes you think would be fun, I'm sure you'll see how good your life really is. (:
  • 11/22/2008 1:58:00 AM
I guess you could try going into drama productions or... rhetoric/debate/speech classes. But in time, you kind of adapt to it and you gain confidence around the opposite sex as you grow older. It's less of a big deal later in life. (:
  • 11/22/2008 2:00:00 AM
What makes people stronger is if they overcome life's trials successfully and with as much positive support they can get. Just letting the girls who abuse your daughter won't change a thing; telling your daughter how beautiful she is won't change her mind.

Talk to the teacher or the principal and get it straightened out. If your daughter doesn't grow up in a socially positive environment, she's not going to grow up to be socially sound and accepted.
  • 11/22/2008 1:52:00 AM
Firsts are really... uh, important. Hell, Asians aren't probably going to be running for president anytime soon.

In any case, a lot of why this election was really important was because of the economic situation and who would lead America; the 70+ year old guy who has experience but less than agreeable policies/vice president, or a more modern guy who is a bit more inexperienced but has the energy to try new things.

  • 11/9/2008 7:22:00 PM
I'm glad you can handle what is given to you. Sooner or later, you'll blow over this and this'll just be a memory. (:
  • 11/5/2008 11:49:00 PM
Sweetie, only you know. (;
  • 11/5/2008 11:48:00 PM
(:

I'm glad that you believe your life is going in a positive way. (:
  • 11/5/2008 11:47:00 PM
Why not, take a chance. (:
  • 11/5/2008 12:30:00 AM
It's not love, it's just that you think they understand you more because you're emotionally damaged. Just keep it chill and platonic. Don't act on anything until you set your emotions straight.
  • 11/4/2008 10:43:00 PM
Obama won. (:
  • 11/4/2008 10:40:00 PM
Privacy is taken for granted. (:

Yay for bedroom doors!
  • 11/4/2008 10:39:00 PM
Uh. If you haven't gone to the bathroom for two months, you should be dead. I'm sorry, but no one can not go to the bathroom for that long... you'd be dead of jaundice/ being septic.
  • 11/4/2008 10:32:00 PM
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