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I'm always here to talk. :]
Be random!
Whatever you want to talk about... you can bring it up.
For example.. you want to talk about global warmimg (really bad example I know XD) so you say "Hey, did you know all Polar bear's are left handed..." and go from there.
You want to talk about yourself.. umm.. just randomly bring up a funny childhood memory and ask him if he used to do anything silly like that when he was a kid.
Have confidence, be random and get talking. :D
Whatever you want to talk about... you can bring it up.
For example.. you want to talk about global warmimg (really bad example I know XD) so you say "Hey, did you know all Polar bear's are left handed..." and go from there.
You want to talk about yourself.. umm.. just randomly bring up a funny childhood memory and ask him if he used to do anything silly like that when he was a kid.
Have confidence, be random and get talking. :D
You must give it time and patience. There is I'm afraid, no easy answer. You have to be strict with your heart and your mind and lay out a set rules. You will have bad days where you can't help but think about him as more than a friend, but when that happens remember this is all a learning curve.
You are now one step closer to finding 'the one'
Friendships are special. Don't throw it away. You can do this... :]
You are now one step closer to finding 'the one'
Friendships are special. Don't throw it away. You can do this... :]
You could conduct very interesting experiments. Seems a waste to leave it in a freezer.
Just a thought. :D
Just a thought. :D
XD XD
Affection also works well, plus, less blood.
Affection also works well, plus, less blood.
*Happy dances! Yay!
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Wow.
The impact of the last two lines is outstanding, to me anyways.
The impact of the last two lines is outstanding, to me anyways.
No! You're not to blame! He is completely to blame. He knew what he was doing.. while you were oblivious.
You may not want to hear this, as you said you put everything into the relationship.. but I would try and move on with my life. If he is causing you this heartache already.. then what could it be like down the line?
Talk it out with him, tell him how you feel exactly. This is not your fault! Remember that. If you think you can trust him.. then maybe you should try and make it work. But to be honest.. I would just abandon ship now. Save yourself the pain.
Take care and good luck, dear.
You may not want to hear this, as you said you put everything into the relationship.. but I would try and move on with my life. If he is causing you this heartache already.. then what could it be like down the line?
Talk it out with him, tell him how you feel exactly. This is not your fault! Remember that. If you think you can trust him.. then maybe you should try and make it work. But to be honest.. I would just abandon ship now. Save yourself the pain.
Take care and good luck, dear.
Wow, made my eyes fill with tears.
Nobody deserves that kind of abuse in their life. You will move on with time. You don't need someone like this holding you down and making your life intolerable.
Your friends and family know what is best for you. They love you, so you need to trust their judgement.
You're right to consider focusing on yourself.. time to make it a reality. You need independence, love, security, and a good standard of living, if you weren't getting this from your husband then it really is time to move on.
It's going to be hard, but I know you're a strong person. Have faith in yourself!
Good luck, sweetheart! :]
Your friends and family know what is best for you. They love you, so you need to trust their judgement.
You're right to consider focusing on yourself.. time to make it a reality. You need independence, love, security, and a good standard of living, if you weren't getting this from your husband then it really is time to move on.
It's going to be hard, but I know you're a strong person. Have faith in yourself!
Good luck, sweetheart! :]
Any song ever written by Taking back Sunday for my general blues.
HIM/My chemical romance when I'm mad.
Blah, there's too many.
New American classic by Taking back sunday!
HIM/My chemical romance when I'm mad.
Blah, there's too many.
New American classic by Taking back sunday!
Yay! That's great! Hope your happiness continues, darling. :]
Innerpartysystem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3 <3
It's an amazing song!
It's an amazing song!
Yeahh, the site's gone to hell. I was going to delete their comments and then I thought.. just ignore them, they'll get bored eventally anyways.
I really love that band btw.
*Nods.
I really love that band btw.
*Nods.
You sound like a song I know... hehe.
''Wish I was a dog'' by Jack L. It's pretty much unheard of, still youtube has it. :]
You should take a listen.
Take care.
''Wish I was a dog'' by Jack L. It's pretty much unheard of, still youtube has it. :]
You should take a listen.
Take care.
It is unlikely for two virgins to pass STD's however, if either of you have had gential contact with another person, you can indeed pick something up from it and spread it.
AID's and HIV can be passed through birth/needles so if either you or your partner has the virus, this can be passed with no pervious sexual intercourse.
No, you do not have to say you're having sex. But why don't you? It is confidental, and this person wants to look after your health, that is there job, and they cannot do that correctly if you are not completely telling the truth.
They must check every few months about birth control, it's routine, to see that is suiting you correctly.
Once you become sexually active, smear tests will begin. It's unlikely they will occur before you tell your gyno you're having sex. They are a little scary at first, but essential for your health. Don't be scared about them.
Good luck and take care. :]
AID's and HIV can be passed through birth/needles so if either you or your partner has the virus, this can be passed with no pervious sexual intercourse.
No, you do not have to say you're having sex. But why don't you? It is confidental, and this person wants to look after your health, that is there job, and they cannot do that correctly if you are not completely telling the truth.
They must check every few months about birth control, it's routine, to see that is suiting you correctly.
Once you become sexually active, smear tests will begin. It's unlikely they will occur before you tell your gyno you're having sex. They are a little scary at first, but essential for your health. Don't be scared about them.
Good luck and take care. :]
It's karma. If you inflict pain, you are doomed to get pain in your life.
Don't dwell on people in your life that are not worth your time, it's better off if you just forget about them. It's just not worth the energy your wasting on him.
Take care.
Don't dwell on people in your life that are not worth your time, it's better off if you just forget about them. It's just not worth the energy your wasting on him.
Take care.
Why don't you change your life then? Your life is in your hands!! If your not happy with it, you are the only one who can change it!
Take control, enjoy life. Do all the things you enjoy and love.
Don't waste your time wishing your life away, you were given life for a reason.
Good Luck. :]
Take control, enjoy life. Do all the things you enjoy and love.
Don't waste your time wishing your life away, you were given life for a reason.
Good Luck. :]
Well if you used to be friends, then you must have liked spending time with each other. Why not leave him a casual facebook/myspace or whatever comment and say:
''hiii, how's everything with you lately??''
As the conversation continues you could just ask him to hang out at your/his house to catch up sometime.
Don't be nervous, honey. He is only human. Take a deep breath and act confident around him, sure enough he will start to notice you again soon.
Good Luck. :]
''hiii, how's everything with you lately??''
As the conversation continues you could just ask him to hang out at your/his house to catch up sometime.
Don't be nervous, honey. He is only human. Take a deep breath and act confident around him, sure enough he will start to notice you again soon.
Good Luck. :]
Being honest about something like this takes time and patience with yourself. Okay, so you didn't tell the complete truth this time, but your councellor wants the very best for you and your health. They won't judge or think any different of you.
So, take it slowly.. try and be more honest and open the next time. And don't beat yourself up if you aren't. Just be patient.
You have obviously come a long way, I greatly admire you strength. Please keep it up.
Take care. :]
So, take it slowly.. try and be more honest and open the next time. And don't beat yourself up if you aren't. Just be patient.
You have obviously come a long way, I greatly admire you strength. Please keep it up.
Take care. :]
You have too many concerns in my opinion to have sex.
You are obviously not ready just yet.
When the time comes you will be comfortable with him and yourself, and none of this will matter to you.
Don't let him pressure you into something you are clearly not ready for. When the time comes you will know.
Wait and just consider this for a little while longer.
Good Luck. :]
You are obviously not ready just yet.
When the time comes you will be comfortable with him and yourself, and none of this will matter to you.
Don't let him pressure you into something you are clearly not ready for. When the time comes you will know.
Wait and just consider this for a little while longer.
Good Luck. :]