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ripperjoey

i would'nt say u are falling out of love with him... i would say that ur confrible and u don't have to impress each other everyday. u don't have to show ur love all the time..
i was with a girl for 4 yrs we had our passionate at the beginning.. now its more every once in awhile kinda like a special thing.
but other wise it sounds like u guys like it the way it is and u just afraid that u might be loosing interest becuase the same as the beginning is'nt there and don't worrie its ok. u still have alot to learn.. just go with the flow it may only get better after the worst..
  • 9/13/2008 2:05:00 AM
i have been there.... by two different people... most of my child hood life... and yes i am a guy.. but i have blocked it out so much i don't let it effect my life.. although when i see something that triggers it i get angry.
the first guy who raped me was a older man and he died already... but the other guy who did it to me lives in seattle and he is alive.. and claimed that he is gay... alot of things can trigger bad memories no matter how hard u block it somthing flashes when it is a reminder. u just learn to control it other wise it gets worst on ur end...
  • 9/13/2008 2:10:00 AM
ever thought maybe there is just a attatchment becuase u have been with him for 2 yrs.. and u are so confrible with him...
it may not be that u love him it is that u are so used to being together that everything starts to remind u of him and stuff like that.
he probly loves u just not the way u want him to. and he keeps running back becuase he gets stuck somewhere. and the only way to restart is to go back where he was in the beginning.
trust me i was that guy. i did that to someone also. it was more that i was confused and i did'nt really know what i wanted. and the girl i did it to i regret doing it but.

so don't stick around for him becuase it will only get worst. me and that girl are not together anymore, and i like it that way right now. plus i still love her alot but more like a family member and i would take a bullet for her but i realized that we were not compatible becuase we were sooo different.
  • 9/5/2008 10:06:00 PM
well what are u in love with.. him.. or something about him?
  • 8/27/2008 2:05:00 AM
don't make any dicisions... i have been there and it is not a good idea to make any dicisions til she makes the dicision and make sure she don't have anything to do with that other guy first. i have been there take a step too far might make u fumble.. so just watch ur step.
  • 8/25/2008 11:59:00 PM
plus maybe she really don't have any clue on how to find him... but it won't hurt to ask. if u hav'net already.
  • 8/26/2008 12:03:00 AM
and thats it?? whats ur point?
  • 8/26/2008 5:20:00 AM
hi
what other secret websites do u know?
  • 8/26/2008 5:22:00 AM
don't give up... find a hobby or a pen pal or something ya know.. life changes as it goes on so u cant give up when something good might come ur way and u will miss it becuase u mad a bad choice....
  • 8/25/2008 12:55:00 AM
Wow thats out there alright.... hey there is liking animals pets whatever but comeon/...
  • 8/25/2008 12:57:00 AM
yeah blow them off who cares if they are preps. there are realy people who are not preps who know what its like... when u get out of highschool. there is'nt preps and stuff just regular people trying to make a living and do something with there lives... preps mean nothing in the real world.
  • 8/24/2008 1:40:00 AM
get away and look into the stars and clear ur mind... relax then think about what is going on and what u want to change
  • 8/23/2008 4:11:00 AM
hey if thats what u want to be then do it just becareful what u say to strangers.. i mean look at eminem he grew up in a community with alot of blacks and he is doing fine... but true thing is just be urself.. who cares what everyone else thinks u are...
  • 8/23/2008 4:13:00 AM
so what.... she is just proud of herself.. nothing personal. ur not the first to fail exams.
  • 8/22/2008 7:04:00 PM
the question is what do u feel guilty for doing it behind her back or do u feel that u were used?
  • 8/22/2008 7:20:00 PM
well u should look up lust and love they are two different things.. u might have them mixed up..
  • 8/22/2008 7:03:00 PM
that board is'nt always bad... light white candle when u do it , it helps keep the good near by. whate candle is the holy candle.
  • 8/25/2008 1:04:00 AM
do u hate being gay or do u hate the idea of u being gay?, or is it that u don't like how people look at u being gay?
  • 8/21/2008 3:12:00 PM
don't worry i have been there before... i am still recovering from trust issues and family diagreement of the way i do things... it will past just have to ride it through
  • 8/23/2008 4:18:00 AM
why is he and who is that is hurting u?
  • 8/21/2008 3:29:00 AM
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