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I don't think its bad. Whatever floats your boat. I think it may just be that you feel really connected with them because praying in a way is a really intimate thing.
If she loves you, she loves you and that won't change. I've known of many Lesbians who have gotten sex changes and their girlfriends have stayed with them because they were in love and they know that thats what was best for they're partner. You have to do whats best for your happiness. If she loves you and its meant to be, don't worry, she will stay by your side.
Maybe if they met him though they're opinion would change...
Sorry, I meant their, obviously...
No definitally not. Don't worry about your family. If they loved you to begin with, they still will. If you are not happy with your husband, leave him. It goes both ways- if he's not your soulmate, your not his. You will be sooo much happier with your real soulmate as will he. He will understand and it might take time, but eventually he will thank you for releasing him so that you could both be happier. Because you are not leaving for another man, and there is really nothing he can do as far as making you happy, it willl be much easier for him to deal with and you should be able to become good friends and have a better relationship than if you had stayed married to him. And children can sense this, I'm sure they know something is up and would be sooo much happier as well if you two were happy. No one will blame you. This is something you can not control. And don't worry about going to hell. You were made this way. Things happen for a reason. And same thing, if God loves you to begin with, he'll still love you and your not going to hell. Good luck!
Its okay. I had just about the same experience. I kind of just knew all along I was a Lesbian, I looooved gay people & everything, stood up for Gay Rights, but did NOT want to be a Lesbian. The only Lesbians I knew and saw were such dykes and I did not want to be like that, and I didn't want that stigma. But then I found out about 'Lipstick Lesbians'. Basically, they are straight up Lesbians, but they look really girly and straight. I am a Lipstick Lesbian now. All you see of Lesbians are the big dykes, basically beacuse that is what is funny to people, and because it takes the world a LOOOONG time to recognize a change- and during the 50s Lesbians were basically all either BIG dykes that looked like men or SUPER lipstick lesbians- it was nearly like man/woman roleplay, and also beacuse unfortunatally some people want all Gay people to look bad. Threre are so many in-between dykey & lipstick also... Just be you! Just because your a Lesbian doesn't mean you have to or should be or will be a dyke!!
It is worth it. Besides, you do not HAVE to come out. Depending on how old you are, where you live, what type of parents you have, ect... you might want to keep it secret. But that does not mean you cannot be in a relationship with her. She might have a hard time understanding it if she is out, a lot of out lesbians/bisexuals do, but just be patient with her and explain to her exactally how you feel. It might make it more difficult if you hide your relationship, but if you love her, it won't matter. It will work out. You might want to seriously think about comming out though. The people who have truely loved you all along will still love you. Don't worry about people at school. Honestly, when I came out I was shocked at how much random people just truely don't care. And I live in the bible belt. Your friends will support you, depending on how your parents are, thry might have a more difficult time, but in the end they will support you. If someone has a problem with it though, try to explain- if they still have a problem, cut them off, you don't need people like that bringing you down (unless its your parents, I'm not saying move out if they don't accept it or anything, but hey, after school once your in college and/or move out- what are they going to do?) And just remember, you will always have your friend you want to go into a relationship with. If you love each other, it will work out, and either you are going through the same situation, or she has gone through it before you and will know how your feeling. And also remember, no matter what people say, you are who you are and you cannot change. It is not evil or wrong. Good luck!
I did then I recently stopped and decided to let it grow back. Most of my friends do.
I'm a lesbian and I don't really care one way or the other and I really can't think of any I know that care either. I'm not fond of landing strips. I would rather have either all shaved or none shaved... but thats just personally... and then again lesbians are very different from men... I think it is just kind of personal preferences in all cases though. Just don't do it for anyone but you though.
I'm a lesbian and I don't really care one way or the other and I really can't think of any I know that care either. I'm not fond of landing strips. I would rather have either all shaved or none shaved... but thats just personally... and then again lesbians are very different from men... I think it is just kind of personal preferences in all cases though. Just don't do it for anyone but you though.
You can't help who you are meant to fall in love & spend the rest of your life with. If its going to be a guy, it will be a guy. But if its going to be a girl, it will be a girl. You'll find a way to make it work either way. Don't worry about what people are or aren't looking for, just worry about how you feel about them. If you meet a wonderful girl that you could spend the rest of your life with, you will then be able to see yourself spending your life with a woman. Just follow your heart, as cliche as that is...
Tell someone. Don't let that shit head get away with it. If you don't feel like you can tell your parents or any of your friends or anything, call the nearest women's haven. You can call 1-877-970-4357. Its a toll free number where you can report sexual violence. Just don't let him get away with him. Its not right. There are so many people who are on your side. Remember that.
No, don't try women. If you are Gay, you are Gay. Never listen to people who want to change you. Its perfectly normal to like straight men, its probably because you like more macho men, and they tend to be straight.? Don't worry, there are plenty of macho gay men, however, unless you go to a large town, they seem pretty hard to find... Or, sometime, you might be with a straight man and thanks to you he relizes he is not as straight as he thinks! You'll end up with who your supposed to, don't worry.
Good for your friend! Just remember, right now is the time that your friend really needs you. You need to accept her/him, be supportive, and if she/he wants to talk to you about a member of the same sex, don't freak. You'll get used to it if you aren't already. And I don't know if you would anyway, but if your friend is a member of the same sex and your afraid they will get a crush on you, don't worry about it. (Unless you want them too, then go for it!)
Shes not confused. One day you will find the one.
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