rosyowl
enigma... I fully agree.
Drugs are not inherently evil. They need to be kept within moderation, and it bugs me when people don't get this. On either side, I want to smack people for being dumbasses when they waste there life stoned or whatever or for avoiding them (and people who do them at all) like the plague.
The only drugs that I would say "don't do this at all" are things like heroin or cigarettes or meth, only because there's too big a risk that moderation would fail.
Drugs are not inherently evil. They need to be kept within moderation, and it bugs me when people don't get this. On either side, I want to smack people for being dumbasses when they waste there life stoned or whatever or for avoiding them (and people who do them at all) like the plague.
The only drugs that I would say "don't do this at all" are things like heroin or cigarettes or meth, only because there's too big a risk that moderation would fail.
I should rephrase part of that. I'm not going to judge someone for choosing to not use ever.
But it bothers me when those people act like if someone doesn't make that choice, they are automatically a bad person. Or being idiotic. Or whatever.
But it bothers me when those people act like if someone doesn't make that choice, they are automatically a bad person. Or being idiotic. Or whatever.
this. is. dumb.
but between substance and cutting, I'd say substance. At least (unless you're being totally stupid with it and crash trying to drive drunk or something) drugs don't leave any scars.
but between substance and cutting, I'd say substance. At least (unless you're being totally stupid with it and crash trying to drive drunk or something) drugs don't leave any scars.
I want/am afraid to kiss the man I like on the lips, and try to win his heart over enough that it overpowers more logical issues (i.e. we're too far apart in age). Because I've been rejected, but from how he did it and how he acts I can't help but think that he actually is trying to repress romantic interest out of trying to be reasonable....
I'm a little apprehensive but I know age doesn't mean it won't work... he's more skeptical.
I would go for it. I have gone for it, and got rejected. My issue right now is to fight or just accept it.
I would go for it. I have gone for it, and got rejected. My issue right now is to fight or just accept it.
um... I think it'd be slightly less likely than actually having sex, but would be possible.
um... I'm still a virgin and don't understand why it's a big deal...?
I can relate to this actually.
I do it because I'm afraid that if someone I knew could see all of my secrets, they'd figure out it's me... just one secret (because anon you can't look at others by the same person), not so likely.
Of course I'm probably being paranoid in the first place, but that's my thinking.
Of course I'm probably being paranoid in the first place, but that's my thinking.
I kinda have the same fantasy... idk, actual rape is bad of course, but I would love for my lover to "rape" me, even do it so that I didn't know for sure it was him until after....
Hey, I made it to 18 without anything happening. Can't say I like it, but there you are. If it is time to start worry, well, there's someone four years worse.
If you wanna really go hard core...
Redlightcenter.com The graphic shit is V.I.P (have to pay), but there's enough that's free, and almost everyone there is looking for cyber I think, and unlike gaia you'll never have someone else walking in going "ewwww gross!"
Redlightcenter.com The graphic shit is V.I.P (have to pay), but there's enough that's free, and almost everyone there is looking for cyber I think, and unlike gaia you'll never have someone else walking in going "ewwww gross!"
sex in a dance club, not being on display but certainly risking people figuring it out, and with the beat pounding out from the speakers... :]
I will say right now, I have to experience or anything to support that I know what I'm talking about.
I would think that you being a lesbian will get out in some manner, eventually. Or, even if you just pretend, he'll probably get the sense that you aren't completely sincere. Given this, the truth is probably the best option.
As to him being suicidal, I can't claim to know exactly what's going on, but perhaps if breaking up can ease into a supportive friendship, he would be okay. Maybe even see if you can be with him for a couple nights, just watch movies or whatever... make sure his heart has had a chance to heal a little before he's alone long enough to do any real damage.
But unless you are a good enough actress that you can convince him that you are fully attracted to him, he's probably going to suspect something is off. I'd think it better he know the truth than think you just aren't satisfied with him as a person.
I would think that you being a lesbian will get out in some manner, eventually. Or, even if you just pretend, he'll probably get the sense that you aren't completely sincere. Given this, the truth is probably the best option.
As to him being suicidal, I can't claim to know exactly what's going on, but perhaps if breaking up can ease into a supportive friendship, he would be okay. Maybe even see if you can be with him for a couple nights, just watch movies or whatever... make sure his heart has had a chance to heal a little before he's alone long enough to do any real damage.
But unless you are a good enough actress that you can convince him that you are fully attracted to him, he's probably going to suspect something is off. I'd think it better he know the truth than think you just aren't satisfied with him as a person.
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