secretname

dont worry every one thinks about sex. even at that age some people even think about it ealier. But I dont want to tell you what to do but I am going to tell you what I think. Do not go out and have sex at 14. Your still a child, you dont want to waste your virginty at 14 with some random person that you think you may love. Wait till your older and you can make descions for your self. What would you do if you had sex with some one and you got the person preagnet, how would you sapport the child? What happens if you get an STD, you would have to live with that for your entire life. Trust me wait till you get older and you find some one you love. Sex will be way better with some one you love and they love you back. When your 12, or even 14 you body isnt even fully developed. Dont make a mistake and have sex and have to deal with that descsion for the rest of your life like an STD or pregancy. Yes I know its hard and you feal that urge to be with some one, but their are other ways of getting rid of thoes horny feelings. Masterbation is one. When ever you want to do some one just go play with your self. it wont get any one preagnet and you wont get an STD and also you wont have an embarising time with a girl. I hope this helps and makes you think.

How did you guys get together? I have a thing for older men but i dont know how to approch them.
and also if you dont think its a healthy relationship then get out of it. If your only staying with him because you feal ugly and useless then thoes arnt the reasons to stay with some one. It could get really bad later and may even become abusive. Please be careful. You dont need a man to make you feal better. there are so many other things out there to help you. I had a lot of problems with suicide and i turned to the lord and it helped me a lot. if you feal so bad dont turn to a boyfriend, try a profesional sycoligist, and work on your self a steem and becoming the best person you can be and be happy.
I hope every thing works out for you :)

you cabnt really do anything. my mom has been addicted to drugs since i could rember and shes now homeless with a heroin addiction. its horrible and it destroyes you seeing the person like that but all you can do is pray and support them when they get better. they have to hit rock bottom and realize they have a problem and then seek help for it. and when they seek help you sapport them and forgive them for all the evil things they did while they wherent them selves. its hard and horrible but THEIR IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO, you can not change any other person, its a waiting game, eventuallhy they will ht rock botom.

I went through that. it takes a long time but eventually it doesn't hurt as much. if it was ment to be you will be together, but if its not god will bless you with someone even better and you will be happier then you could evre imagin. i know this sounds like bullshit but its true.