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Taye1402

i'm pretty sure that's unsanitary! cats lick the poop out of their ass.

i don't know what to tell you really...
  • 10/20/2008 10:58:00 PM
k, first of all, it's foreplay.

and second, you're 15 years old and too young to give up on your special someone. he may not show up till you're a senior, but if it's that important to you, you'll make yourself wait.

i hope you do wait, or you'll regret it.
  • 10/13/2008 4:17:00 AM
talk to your parents about seeing a psychiatrist. there are meds to control bipolar disorder, anxiety, depression and schizophrenia. while you may not be able to take them all at the same time, i think this will help your life calm down and put your boyfriend at ease a bit. it'll also show him that you care. it'll show your family that you care too.

sometimes action really do speak louder than words.

as for the bulimia... well you already know it's not goos for you, so why don't you talk to someone about it? about how to stop and become healthy.
  • 10/11/2008 10:30:00 PM
there are subtle ways to find out if someone is into you. you can watch the way they look at you or the way they say things. depending on how young you are, you can ask a friend to talk to them and see if they're into you. but if you're in high school, you need to do it yourself.

but... if you don't wanna say anything so your relationship doesn't get weird, that's your choice, as is saying something. =]
  • 10/11/2008 9:33:00 PM
if you're 18 and haven't had a period, you need to see a doctor. that should've happened years ago.
  • 10/11/2008 9:29:00 PM
are you anorexic? no bueno if you are.

but i've told that kind of lie too...
  • 10/11/2008 9:30:00 PM
i agree with penguin. it's unfortunate that your friends don't try to stop you. so now you have to be accountable for yourself and your own life and let someone like a counselor know.
  • 10/11/2008 2:48:00 AM
okay... first, if you think you're bisexual, then you probably are. i'm bi, and that's not really one of those feelings that goes away. you probably won't feel comfortable with yourself until your junior or senior year in high school, or till after you graduate. so don't stress over it.

and about you and your uncle. it's kind of unsettling that you felt him up in his sleep... are you curious about the male body? i'd imagine so since you're in that puberty stage, so you should get to know your own body before you start feeling up others', ESPECIALLY your family. that's a no-no.
  • 10/11/2008 2:39:00 AM
you're not weird. everyone is different and we all have different fears. [the thought of calling people i barely know makes me anxious] i'm sure you're not the only person in the world that's experienced what you are experiencing.

i don't know how old you are, but if it applies, and if you can, talk to your parents about it and see if they can find you a therapist. i know talking to parents about sex is weird and uncomfortable, but if you have a stable relationship with them, then they should be understanding and willing to help you. also, a therapist may help get to the root of your anxiety.
if you don't have parents to talk to, then find someone close to you like and uncle or aunt, etc. and if you're in school, i'm sure you can go to your counselor. that's what they are there for.
lastly, i suggest that you explore your own body. sex and arousal are a natural part of life and if you know and understand your body better, maybe it will help with your anxiety.

i hope that helps!
  • 10/11/2008 2:45:00 AM
if you want your relationship to continue, you need to tell him. nothing good comes from lies and secrets from your significant other
  • 10/11/2008 2:54:00 AM
i think you should bring up her thing about being "mostly" straight. if you start talking about how she probably actually bi, then maybe the conversation will lead to the two of you...
  • 10/11/2008 9:37:00 PM
take up something that allows you to have control. talk to a counselor or someone close to you that you can trust to help you find what that is.
  • 10/11/2008 9:34:00 PM
well first thing, if you're a guy that's attracted to another guy, but is also attracted to girls, that makes you bi. so there's nothing to be confused about there. i think you kinda wish you weren't bi so you wouldn't have to deal with these feelings. i think that's why you think you're unsure.

now this guy may or may not be straight, true, but there's no telling your body to shut up either way, i've been there too. you just have to deal until you know. and if nothing happens, hopefully you can move on after you graduate or whatever.

but i totally understand what you're saying. it's hard to have those feelings and then see that person all the time.
  • 10/11/2008 9:42:00 PM
chat rooms are good for that...

and that was not a secret!
  • 10/11/2008 9:43:00 PM
hmmm... well communication is key. talk to him about what he likes and wants to try.

also, toys - if you can find a way to purchase some - are fun.
  • 10/11/2008 10:09:00 PM
read what you posted. i think you answered your own question.
  • 10/11/2008 9:44:00 PM
if you want to let go of these feelings so that you and your husband and your daughter can all be happy together, maybe you should talk to someone. a therapist or something.

i would hate for you to let these feelings just sit in you and not try to get rid of them because when she grows up, you won't be able to have a real relationship with her.

it's the younger years that are critical to connect with your child and as they get older, those are the years to get to know them and experience things together.
  • 10/11/2008 10:07:00 PM
no there's nothing wrong with you, and no, your sexuality has nothing to do with feeling good. everybody, at one point or another, has messed with themselves.
  • 10/11/2008 9:46:00 PM
ME TOO! i'm 18 and i go for around 22 and up when it comes to guys. i don't think that's weird or anything, you just have to protect yourself and make sure any guy you talk to is for real.
  • 10/11/2008 10:11:00 PM
if you wanna meet other girls, go to true.com.

good site.

but not here.
  • 10/11/2008 9:47:00 PM
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