I have a friend, who thinks just as you do...not to mention I use to think the same way. I am very sorry that this is your mentality. I hope you find someone in your life who could possibly give you a better view of life. It's not all that bad...
I am going through the same thing. I honestly don't know what to say to him anymore. An email or letter is very helpful. You can write it throughout the days when you feel something new is wrong. Then give it to him. Always have an open mind and prepare yourself heart, mind and soul for what his reaction might be. HOPEFULLY, it's a good one. Good luck! Let me know how it goes!