VagueMemories

I think you made the right choice. She really shouldn't concern herself with your business, and the fact that you shared it to her meant that you felt you had a good relationship with her.

She clearly has her own issues with her sexuality, so she probably took it out on you. You really didn't deserve several spiteful letters. Props for you for taking the high road.

And not every american is conservative about sex like that ;P
Just depends on who the individual is :)